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So everything is good now and I am happy again. The pieces are all back together. We got a new guitarist and had a show with him over the weekend and it went great im so happy.
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trills:
Good to hear!
vortex:
Can't believe you haven't added ME yet!!!! Whats up babeh?
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So we talked everything out and things are going great, but now I'm worried about where we go from here, We plan on seeing eachother for the first time since the breakup next sunday, im already terrified about it and I just dont see us knowing things are better until we are back together, we've comprimised and agreed on everything we talked about that we...
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libra:
fingers crossed for you sweety kiss skull
spiderbaby:
sometimes the amount of comprimises you both have to make arnt worth it. (im not trying to seem dull, just another view on the situation) im glad things are working out again so far.
i just want you to think about something someone told me
"humans die, animals die, plants die, love dies too."
you have my best wishes thou
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I want to start by giving love and thank yous to all of you I appreciate it so much you have no idea...this has been the worst few days of my entire life and knowing that people I dont even really know can read this and give the advice that you did gives hope to the rest of the world that decent people do exist...
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kozmikgirl:
If what you did feels like it was the right thing to do, then it was.

Give it your all. Regret would be worse then not trying. I agree.

Good luck! I hope it all works out & with a sappy movie-style happy ending too! wink
spiderbaby:
i wish my guy would have given our love another shot.. i never got that chance..
your chick, she is a very very lucky girl.
i reallly hope everything works out for you hunny. smile
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I broke up with my g/f of almost a year and a half, i know i made the right decision cause she changed and it wasnt for the better and now everythings one sided and she only thinks about herself and lost touch with idea of us and our relationship...ive been in love with her for 4 years since we first met and ive never...
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slik_toxik:
Since I'm an opinionated little wench, I have opinions. wink

Never feel that you MUST feel a certain way. Your feelings have been doing their own thing your whole life and by now you have to realize that though you can control a lot in your life, that isn't one of them. You can still love something/someone but realize that it's slowly sucking the life out of you. If it ever DOES get to that point, distancing yourself from it to relocate who YOU are is ALWAYS the best route. Couplehood to me is something that you share with someone and sure, eventually you both evolve into what's right for both of you, but if you're evolving into something you never wanted to be, keep the love but get back to who YOU are. Life's too short to cater to pleasing the rest of the world and ignoring what you're own hopes/dreams/goals/standards/convictions were about in the first place darlin.
Hopefully because of the history you both had, you can grow to be great friends. Some of my BEST friends are ex's, and we get along way better now as friends since we parted before destroying each other.

I have advice to friends about relationships that have gone sour... it's rather blunt, but that's what I'm about, it goes:
If you take a carton of milk out of the fridge, and find it's turned sour, you don't put it back in the fridge and think, well, if I just be patient and see what time brings, it may turn into good milk again. It won't. Rare that relationships repair when left to stagnate either unless there's some serious work done on them. Habits are HARD to break and if a couple has got into a habit of doing things to break the other, chance are without help, the pattern will continue and worsen. : /

You did the right thing in either ending it, or stepping back for awhile to put it into perspective to see if it's fixable later on in time after you both see how much you miss each other and are willing to work it out later.

Hugs to you in your time of confusion, but to quote a saying... "...and this too shall pass..." wink

Good luck dollface and I hope things balance out for you both quickly. smile
iseult:
I'm so sorry to hear about this. As for your not being as upset as you thought you'd be, perhaps it does point to the fact that you knew things had to change, but maybe not. We all deal with pressure in unexpected ways sometimes and there's no need to justify them; it's just how we cope.

I hope you're all right. smile
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Wow its been such a long time since i updated so lets see...my life is great...im startin my new job on monday...but most importantly the band is doing amazing...we had a show lastnight in philly for this global battle of the bands and we advanced to the semi final(3rd round) of the contest which will be held at the northstar bar in philly. If we...
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thekimmer:
np. thank you -=]
angeluca:
Thank you for the friends add!
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Hey if anyone is gonna be in the area EOAE will be playing the hook in brooklyn on 12/23. Check our site for more info...


Justin EOAE
www.endofanera.org
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conjure:
not this year... it would be so very nice though...
derelict:
where ever are you my friend?

didy ou get sucked into a nexus???
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So I know what your all thinkin...its time to go to a fetish night!!! That's right you crazy bitches End of an Era will be performing at The Dockstreet Fetish Night in Staten Island on Friday Nov 25th. Come show some support and just come for a great time. Its gonna be crazy. For more info go to myspace.com/endofanera01 or go to www.endofanera.org

Justin
oryx:
hey! thanks for the friend request. unfortunately, i really try hard to keep my friends list to those people i have met in person or who comment in my journal on a regular basis. i like being able to click on my bookmarks and be genuinely interested in the journals that come up. please feel free to bookmark me as interesting and make a comment or two in my journal when you read something that interests you!
edea:
hope you have a happy turkey day smile
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I got a show tomorrow or well today 11/2 at the conduit in trenton...if anyone can go just show up...we go on at 8:30...i should prob be sleepin but lewis black is on hbo and i cant stop laughing...oh well lol...


Justin

www.endofanera.org