OK so here's the deal.
November 2009-my 13 year old daughter thinking she was "cool" left a comment on a youtube video alluding to the fact that there is neglect & abuse in her family. There is not. It was a comment from a 13 year old trying to be cool. trust me it has been dealt with. HOWEVER my sister, a nurse, & my brother, a school teacher, somehow found out about this comment through a mysterious 3rd party & told me that because they are OBLIGATED by their professions to report things such as this they were doing me a great favor in telling me that I was an awful parent & that I had better change things or I will loose my kids to the social system. They also told me not to tell "Mommy" because it would just upset her.
December 2009-Do I need to tell you that I chose to stay HOME for the holidays & not visit with the sister, brother & family.
January 2010-I consult legal advice. I inform brother & sister that they are bullies & they had better not treat me in this manner again. Meanwhile Jack-ass I had 4 year relationship with posts profile on Match.com without telling me. I break it off with jack-ass.
February 2010- Jack ass exhusband gets "laid off" kids lose health care. Brother has second child & I forgot that there is an unwritten family rule that you MUST CALL the parents to congratulate them
March 2010-still no work for exhole
April 2010- Suffer through Easter at mothers house with Sister & Brother
May 2010-Take on 3 more classes, rehearsing 3 shows & traveling for work. Get invited to bother's kids christening but can't go because I have already scheduled rehearsal that day. DISCOVER LUMP IN LEFT BREAST
June 2010-Sister in law calls tells me brother is very upset because I don't call or visit anymore. YEAH GUILTY MUCH. (Did I mention that NO ONE EVER visits me because they don't like where I live) But she would like if if things were back the way they were. MOTHER CALLS ME to ask if I can just THINK about changing my plans...WTF?!?!
Should I call my mother back? Tell her that the last 8 months have been HELL & the last thing on my mind is changing my schedule because my brother is upset?! What about all the upset he caused me? What about the fact that I could have fucking cancer right now?!
Am I missing something here?!
Cause I can be oblivious to things some times but COME ON?!
November 2009-my 13 year old daughter thinking she was "cool" left a comment on a youtube video alluding to the fact that there is neglect & abuse in her family. There is not. It was a comment from a 13 year old trying to be cool. trust me it has been dealt with. HOWEVER my sister, a nurse, & my brother, a school teacher, somehow found out about this comment through a mysterious 3rd party & told me that because they are OBLIGATED by their professions to report things such as this they were doing me a great favor in telling me that I was an awful parent & that I had better change things or I will loose my kids to the social system. They also told me not to tell "Mommy" because it would just upset her.
December 2009-Do I need to tell you that I chose to stay HOME for the holidays & not visit with the sister, brother & family.
January 2010-I consult legal advice. I inform brother & sister that they are bullies & they had better not treat me in this manner again. Meanwhile Jack-ass I had 4 year relationship with posts profile on Match.com without telling me. I break it off with jack-ass.
February 2010- Jack ass exhusband gets "laid off" kids lose health care. Brother has second child & I forgot that there is an unwritten family rule that you MUST CALL the parents to congratulate them
March 2010-still no work for exhole
April 2010- Suffer through Easter at mothers house with Sister & Brother
May 2010-Take on 3 more classes, rehearsing 3 shows & traveling for work. Get invited to bother's kids christening but can't go because I have already scheduled rehearsal that day. DISCOVER LUMP IN LEFT BREAST
June 2010-Sister in law calls tells me brother is very upset because I don't call or visit anymore. YEAH GUILTY MUCH. (Did I mention that NO ONE EVER visits me because they don't like where I live) But she would like if if things were back the way they were. MOTHER CALLS ME to ask if I can just THINK about changing my plans...WTF?!?!
Should I call my mother back? Tell her that the last 8 months have been HELL & the last thing on my mind is changing my schedule because my brother is upset?! What about all the upset he caused me? What about the fact that I could have fucking cancer right now?!
Am I missing something here?!
Cause I can be oblivious to things some times but COME ON?!
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nene:
I completely agree with aldremech. Don't put up with it. Stand your ground and take care of yourself.
wyldewolfe:
Tell your mother everything, and I completely agree with aldremech.