You don't just have to join the military to loose a lot of the freedoms that civillians in this country have. You can also be married to someone in the military and the same rules apply to you . Thank god my husband plans on getting out when his second term runs out in two years.
On a positive note, we finally have a second car! It has been extremely difficult to work almost 60 hours a week and have a husband that works 70+ hours a week, have a child and only have one car to get around.