I find people as a whole very frustrating.
There are persons I love.
But people suck.
It's too stressful to keep in contact with people when they appoint me "relationship manager." Like, it's usually me who has to keep up with everyone or the friendship peters off and dies. There are a select few to whom this does not apply, but by and large, it's true for most people I know.
Even family are guilty of this. My mom spoke to me the other day about how my family is miffed that I don't contact them ever, but....they never talk to me. They only talk to me when they want to talk to my mom. Like, once my step sister Facebook Messaged me asking where my mom was. Another time, my uncle tried to pick a fight with my mom through me. I love my mom, but I'm not her secretary. No one else talks to me, but then expects me to talk to them.
I'm not like that. Sigh.
There are persons I love.
But people suck.
It's too stressful to keep in contact with people when they appoint me "relationship manager." Like, it's usually me who has to keep up with everyone or the friendship peters off and dies. There are a select few to whom this does not apply, but by and large, it's true for most people I know.
Even family are guilty of this. My mom spoke to me the other day about how my family is miffed that I don't contact them ever, but....they never talk to me. They only talk to me when they want to talk to my mom. Like, once my step sister Facebook Messaged me asking where my mom was. Another time, my uncle tried to pick a fight with my mom through me. I love my mom, but I'm not her secretary. No one else talks to me, but then expects me to talk to them.
I'm not like that. Sigh.