So...i'm home for a week.
Guess what i learned...
My parents have split up.
my dad kinda sorta moved out...most of his stuff is still here...he's living in a shitty apartment across town...
i still don't really know why though...that's the weird thing...my parents have always been really different from eachother...but they always seemed to work...after talking with both of them...the only thing i can figure out that changed is the fact that now my dad is 45 (they had me pretty young), and he's possibly depressed and/or going through some sort of midlifey crisisy thingy...who knows...
It's kinda real effed up anyway...and i'm still trying to get my head around it...
it may or may not be permanent...they're still in contact pretty regularly...he's over here a couple nights a week...my parents went on a "date" last week...apparently...(head explodes)...and yet things only seem to be getting more convoluted and much less than solved.
the really effed up thing....hannah's parents did this last year...right down to the part about not telling her 'til after finals were over so she wouldn't be distracted from schoolwork.
life is fucking weird. i don't get it.
i don't know what to feel even...
Guess what i learned...
My parents have split up.
my dad kinda sorta moved out...most of his stuff is still here...he's living in a shitty apartment across town...
i still don't really know why though...that's the weird thing...my parents have always been really different from eachother...but they always seemed to work...after talking with both of them...the only thing i can figure out that changed is the fact that now my dad is 45 (they had me pretty young), and he's possibly depressed and/or going through some sort of midlifey crisisy thingy...who knows...
It's kinda real effed up anyway...and i'm still trying to get my head around it...
it may or may not be permanent...they're still in contact pretty regularly...he's over here a couple nights a week...my parents went on a "date" last week...apparently...(head explodes)...and yet things only seem to be getting more convoluted and much less than solved.
the really effed up thing....hannah's parents did this last year...right down to the part about not telling her 'til after finals were over so she wouldn't be distracted from schoolwork.
life is fucking weird. i don't get it.
i don't know what to feel even...
aikaterine:
You're from Marquette, Michigan, and you like the Be Good Tanyas...how do I not know you? ![biggrin](https://dz3ixmv6nok8z.cloudfront.net/static/img/emoticons/biggrin.b730b6165809.gif)
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mikael:
Man! That is depressing. Parents are people too, though. Can you talk to him about it at all? I know it might be weird, but it might help the both of you in the long run..