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Ok, it's official. I'm stressed out. I'm not a person who sweats the small stuff, but most of this crap doesn't exactly qualify as "small stuff" anyway. My health is kicking up again, which means how long/hard I can work is dictated by my body. The computer continues to act weird, which means I can get very little work done. I'm worried about loved ones....
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perdita:
Take care of yourself first and foremost. Then take care of everything else. smile

It's good advice . . . I'll try to follow it myself one of these days.

Thanks for the vacation well wishes! It was great but way too short.

Oh and I'm sort of not doing the messy watermelon kisses right now? You're the first person to notice though! smile
sapphic_fire:
Aw.. i hope you start feeling better soon.. what's going on with your comp? you might have some malware or spyware.. those are always great at slowing your machine down...
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Some people attract a certain type of person. If I say "freak magnet", you know exactly what I'm talking about. My friend Sasha is always getting hit on by black men. Gay girls love Robin. And my sister can't seem to find a guy who can hold down a job. I always thought this was because of of a certain 'vibe' that one puts out......
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nikonphoto80:
I think it's every young boys fantasy to be with an older women, maybe that is what is going on.

punknitemike:
i wanna see ya on rollerskates, cause i bet you're super cute! wink
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The Good

- FINALLY saw the new Harry Potter movie. Loved it - my movie companion, not so much. But he is a damn commie.

- The new issue of Craft Magazine came out today, and you'll find e positive designs (me) on the second (?) to last page in the Etsy feature. It's small, but I'll take it.

- I sold my "Zombie Gnome...
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nopantsdave:
Why I chose Cincinnati specifically.....the Reds have been my favorite team for almost twenty years. But as for why I am moving...I just needed a new place. I moved down here in 96 and should have only been here for about three or four years while I finished my degree. Instead here I am almost 11 years later and I am just now getting out. I've been in a rut for a bit and it's time to shake myself out of that. I figured a new town would do that. Since I am not going to Grad school any time soon, I didn't have any real reason to prefer one city over another. So, I went with the place where I could get an apartment within walking distance of my favorite baseball team's stadium.

I've been to Cincinnati three times now. I haven't spent a ton of time downtown. Is it really that bad? I've heard it's not the most happening downtown ever. Considering I've been living in a town of only 70,000 people, it's got to be a step up.

Oh, and I don't know anyone. Part of what I was looking for was a fresh, new start where I didn't know anyone. I crossed Chicago and Detroit off my list because I know people there. That left me with St. Louis, Louisville, Cleveland, Milwaukee, Pittsburgh and Cincinnati as far as what can I afford to move to, how big is the city and do I know anyone.....at that point I had to choose Cincy.
nopantsdave:
I'm 30....I don't really want to be surrounded by a bunch of Frat kids.

The fact that you know who Emma the Lunchline Lady is makes me happy.
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Trying to be positive, positive, positive.

It's hotter than Hades, the news over my friend has me worried, and I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow that I'm not looking forward to. To get myself centered and feeling better about things, I did a self-Reiki treatment, followed by a little meditation. But it went a little something like this:

God it's hot. It's so fucking hot....
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nikonphoto80:
I'm sorry it took me so long, I was with out Internet since Monday.

What is the news on your friend? I really hope your doctor's appointment goes ok.

I really do not see how you have went that long in KY with out a window unit, I moved into my new place and I had to get a new one, I really could not live one day with out one, if I get over 70 degrees I can't sleep and well of course if it gets over 80 dust bunny will die.

It's so amazing that he brought you a window unit, that is so nice of him, I know that will make your life so much better.
eddie:
Peke's are treat motivated, not punishment motivated. But, they were a bit hard to potty train, the both of 'em. They are quite good at everything else, actually a very smart breed usually.
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Jesus.

Just found out one of my very good friends has cancer. Stage 2 Hodgkins Lymphoma to be exact. Apparently, its a "good" cancer (easily treatable), but I haven't decided if she's just telling me that to make me feel better. I honestly don't know what to say. I'm a big believer in "everything is a lesson" but it's a harder pill to swallow when...
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akamces:
okay not to freak you out too much... but do you all live in the general proximity of eachother? work in the same building (is it 'new construction', emitting levels of cancer causing toxins are high), drink the same water, food...ect? In my opinion its plausable being enviromental (man made) rather that draw of the straws.
I'lll guess you are visiting the doctor frequently, continue to get screened.
hugs.
akamces:
would it be a class action suit...?
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nirbhao:
I get it!

in the sense, I'm totally down with fake it 'til I make it
akamces:
I headed to Sweden to meet up with my good friend and his wife. He is from Sweden and his father has a old farmhouse. I was recruited for labor of love. We cleared 10 years of garden growth, trimmed trees ect. I also was able to walk around Copenhagen, Malmo, Lund and took a drive along the southern coast. Seemes like the perfect place to settle down at. Its a 20min drive to Malmo or Lund and 35min to Copenhagen via train. City planning is done right and people dont idle their cars...the list is exhausting. I see myself there in 5 years or so.
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- Still not feeling great. Same old shit. Moving on...

- Are you watching Meadowlands? Because you really should be.

- I'm currently working on "Katie's Underground Railroad"... an escape plan for my little sister to get away from her controlling, dipshit boyfriend and out of Arizona for good.

- There's this place down the street from my house that has the best carrot...
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nirbhao:
I spent highschool trying to figure out how to deal with being not straight in a conservation community. I still cringe a little bit thinking about my dating history.

my cousin is just being sweet.
charmed_:
ooooooh, i would LOVE a hat, especially since my hair will probably be v. crazy by then. also, i'm a bit afraid of the chicago weather. however, potentially mortal weather is worth the risk as an exchange for all of the other schtuffs. i've been several times, but never stayed longer than a week. i spent a week in evanston as well because i was doing an institute at northwestern. that was really fun. i LOVE chicago, but i wouldn't mind living in evanston, especially if i am working on that campus. the proximity is enough, yet there are still walkable sidewalks, more affordable places to live, etc. maybe i am wrong, though - you tell me! do you visit chicago often? i'd definitely come dancing! i've never really done nightlife in chicago. i'm pretty much over the moon about moving to be sure. so you are a native chicagoan then? how did you end up in ky? (wow - that is kind of a gross abbreviation now that i think about it like a 14yo). also, that is alot of questions. you certainly do not have to answer them all.

health is a changeling. luckily, there is tea ~ and crafty goodness. nuff said. zen on.

as for the books thing - aaaaaah, rare books ~ what a treat!! i have an old copy of alice in wonderland that i adore, but otherwise nothing in that realm. i can certainly appreciate the pragmatics of ridding yourself of them, but also the pain. still and all, someone is loving them, so yay for that. that collection you mix with your books sounds very intriguing! collecting is kind of a groovy pasttime. once i have a real income i plan to add some bones to the mix, but as yet i have none. i anticipate more spider bodies in various forms of freezation as well. ooooh, and flower photos. *imagines*
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I'm feeling like el crapo and I'm taking the day off. Wake me tomorrow.
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rin:
mental cupcakes are a great idea and now i'm sending them back to you! i hope you stop feeling el crapo.
charmed_:
hope yr feeling better soon!
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I had a nice long walk today. Didn't walk anywhere specific, didn't even bring my camera, just put on my headphones and walked. It was a gorgeous day and it felt really good. I want a shirt that says "keep on truckin'".
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nirbhao:
Mackinac Island, which is my favoritest place EVA' is about 4 hours north of me
panthro:
umm, i already waz being shooooshed about harry potter! i never mentioned anything you silly. so you are safe.
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Ahhh... nothing like inhaling paint fumes all day. *cough cough* Having paint dust in your eyelashes is a strange sensation. I wish I had something cool to show for it, but because it rained all day, today's shoot was put off in favor of getting crap done around the house, including painting the radiators. Tomorrow, if it rains... I spackle! I have several projects for...
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sitar:
NOOOOO!
charmed_:
wow - that book looks amazing! i might have to order that if i can find it in the world. new watermelon things are most welcome and generally beloved.

oh, photography! i LOVE photography, but thus far i've not done much to cultivate my own skill. its on my to learn list. your pictures are adorable, so you must be good! smile

also, yr fur kids are soooo sweet.
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ckdexterhaven:
uh, never mind. 'twas a joke. or an attempt.
charmed_:
hello new friend! all of that sounds absolutely marvelous!! mmmmmmmm coffee ... nectar of the very alert gods.

also, i am deeply connected to watermelons & watermelon lore. I will have to pass the stories along at some point.