your Mom makes a lot of good points, but on the other hand, most of those words should be left between your father and her. I hate it when parents involve the kids in the "word exchange" that happens with divorce. You already have to put up with all the nonverbals, why do you need to deal with the verbals/written as well?
Good luck and I hope everything gets better.
You're going to use the Deathwing server and join the Suicide Squad, right?