Tuesday Aug 21, 2007

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this is going to be my first post of a more personal nature, so we'll see how it goes.

*WARNING HIGHSCHOOLESQUE DATING DRAMA*

there's this girl at work that i really like, she's beautiful and smart and funny and we get along well. neither of us are in relationships so i decided to ask her out. i got the whole "i like you a lot and i like hanging out with you but i'm happy with my life as it is right now" speech. so, i'm thinking, that's fine i guess, i should just move on and forget the whole thing. now the problem is, since we work at the same place, we see each other at least 4 days a week, she calls and texts me all the time, we have the same friend base and therefore see each other at parties and such all the time and i quite frankly don't want to move on. how do i deal with this? i think i need to separate myself from her for a bit, but how do i do this without alienating myself from social gatherings and making her feel as though she's done something wrong?
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tilpacer:
It is not pathetic. You tried and that is what counts. Just remain friends with her. If she can't see what an awesome guy you are now, then it is her loss.

Have a great day! biggrin
y:
I would probably do the compilation, your own mix, maybe. It would depend on the person and how well I knew them. I know people who, if I were to encourage them to listen to Tom, would only like his early stuff, so I would lend them Small Change or something. But I also know people who I could lend Frank's Wild Years to first and be sure they'd take to it no problem.

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