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not much to say not much time well find some thing to say and find the time for we are the ones whot dont want to say anything or find the time
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you know i have to say that i never thought i could feel so helpless . i am half way around the world from my little girl (14) not so little i know but still my little girl . she is going threw hard times with me deployed and her mom and i getting a divorce . she is upset acting out and there is...
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My parents were divorced. Depeche Mode's "Precious" makes me a bit emotional for it--

If God has a master plan
That only He understands
I hope it's Your eyes He's seeing through


Now that I'm older I don't regret it. Studies show that children don't notice tension in a marriage and are more content when parents stay together. But, I know now how difficult these relationships can be. I'm well-adjusted and okay with what happened. No one deserves such a difficult relationship. When my parents split up, I learned I can love someone so much I mourn the end of the relationship like I'd mourn a death. I found comfort and maturity knowing that after either the world doesn't end. They tried to set a good example and they did, even when they made mistakes under duress.

The divorce of my aunt, too, had the same impression. She said, "I don't regret my marriage because we had 20 years together." My last epiphany on it is that I held myself responsible for controlling how my loved ones changed. I struggle with that still, I think, but the awareness keeps me down to earth during trying moments.

I can't begin to understand what families of military go through. I think about it all the time when I study history.
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Well all new to this but i am deployed and looking for some people to talk to while here and at home . Life is good here just long days and lonely nights .