It is frightfully easy to get angry at all the shit people out there placing the blame of their own shortcomings on others, to get pissed and furious at those with whom you can't reach a good place no matter how hard you try. But carrying anger around is so heavy.
Yesterday I was fuming at my ex for being shitty, for reminding me of when she was so shitty. And then I found out that a wonderful friend of mine was hurt very badly Saturday in a drunk-driving accident.
So... perspective.
The shitty people are their own punishment. I don't have to carry that around for them. I just have to love the people in my life who are good, find joy, and spread that ever outward.