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First off, I will say straight-out: I am NOT a member of FetLife, I am not into a lot of "crazy" shit.
But I have an open mind, and when something entertaining is happening in my backyard...
I spent yesterday at the NELA Providence Fetish Fair (http://nelaonline.org/cmsms/index.php?page=fff).
I always find it funny that it have the same acronym as the New England Librarian Association...
I...
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I forget I have this account. Long time since I last did anything with it.
It's weird, I can use this site as a retrospective of the last 6 years of my life (in a way).
Lots of things have changed.
I have a house now. I ended up getting a second dog. Forced to be concerned with plumbing, remodeling, dehumidifiers, refinishing hardwood floors, etc....
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Last night was one of those that went from excellent to horribly awkward to downright horrible.
My friends organized a pub crawl and I invited yet more friends.
Things started off fun, but the rain of Hurricane Irene scared a lot of people off until later.
It was our goal to hit up every sketchy bar in Brighton, from the Last Drop to Hogan's Run...
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I am tired. I either feel as though my life is stalled out or is in overdrive. I don't seem to find...balance.
There is the stasis of the 9-5 work schedule (which really means 8:15 to 6:00), followed by coming home to the dog, being too tired to hit the gym, bike, create, socialize, etc. Then there is the go-non-stop mode- buy a house, have...
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Good evening,
I see...it's been awhile.
I have been busy with work and figuring out where I will live next. Note to self: if you see a kind a cool yet sketchy loft....just run the fuck away.
All of my friends have moved out of this building because it's just fucked. I've decided that I'm sick of moving for awhile and that I'm just going...
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So...
I have the day off for MLK.
However, instead of say...visiting my friends in NYC....I am....in Pawtucket....
I had this grand idea in my head that I would be REALLY productive this weekend.
However, somehow the fact that it's 14 degrees out makes me substantially less inclined to leave the house.

Other things I did accomplish (or...did not accomplish....) this weekend: Friday, I bailed...
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So...here it is...Halloween weekend....and I am in my new home in Rhode Island.
Yes...I moved from Manhattan....to....Rhode Island.
Long story, but great job offer presented myself and I felt like it was time to move on. I LOVE NYC, but when you already work 50-60 hours a week, it's sort of a worthless place to be. You pay a huge amount of money to live...
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Good Evening Ladies and Gents,
I am recuperating from a long week of travel through the Midwest and a very long day trying to get home through a major snow storm. I am just happy to be able to spend the evening with my dog and watch MadMen.
I had watched it before when it was on, before the rest of the world got addicted...
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Hola, SG world!
I finally have internet AND a new apartment- AND I'm not traveling for work this week, so I can USE it.
Novel concepts indeed.
I am in the process of unpacking and trying to get this place set-up appropriately.
Why has this all taken so long?
1) Mojo here looked at about 60 places before finding the right one
2) Has had...
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I just went on what was possibly one of the worst dates I've ever been on with one of the biggest wankers I've ever met-
For starter, the dude more or less begged me to go out with him tonight- even though it was after 10 on a work night, I was like, OK, I'll do it.
So, I meet him for drink at a...
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I just saw Pepper. I love those guys.
Now, after driving home and eating amazing falafel, I am curled up in bed in very tall socks and a t-shirt. I feel hipster-ish.
I am feeling overwhelmingly fucked over by one of the guys in my life. My bike also is having issues.
I may or may not need to drive to New Jersey in the...
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