malloryknoxx

Well, I am a moody little bitch, thanks for asking! But I'm pretty low maintenance at this point ... I have basically learned to choose my fights. I am capable of silently fuming and killing with kindness rather than my old method, which required digging deep holes in the middle of the night to dispose of the bodies. So ... progress!

You would never know this progress if you saw me driving in the car when there is a lot of traffic though. I figure someone has installed a lo-jack on my car without my knowledge and they track my movements so that all the slowest people can box me in.

I had a boyfriend once that was really, really easy going. It was nice on the one hand, because we never, ever fought about anything. But it was hard to get anything done, too ... like going to eat, for example. "Where do you want to eat?" "I don't know, where do you want to eat?" "Well, what kind of food do you want?" Endlessly. I would wind up getting frustrated and saying ... you know, this would be a lot easier if one of us had an f'n opinion! So the easy going thing can be taken too far as well.

My favorite part about my temper is ... my son, Steve, loves me to death. And he knows exactly how to defuse my temper quickly (if he chooses to ... I think sometimes he ENJOYS watching me pissed off). BUT, let someone start telling him about how cool I am, blah, blah ... he HATES having a cool mom ... and he will just calmly say, "Wait until my mom goes all 'When Animals Attack' on you. " I love that line and it is really hard to maintain anger when you're laughing your ass off.

You did see the pictures of the scratches from that last cat fight I had, didn't you? Were you on my friend's list yet? It was back in January, I think ... before I decided to be happy Suzy again. That was the first actual physical altercation I had had in some years, I suppose, and the only witness said ... Wow, I'm surprised you can fight like that at your age. Yeah, us old broads still have a little fight left in 'em!

Have a peaceful, easy-going day, babe!

Lemme answer your questions cause i think im one of those confounding people:

i have ulcers (bad), have very fucked up sleeping patterns, and it IS a personality thing. (well inmy opinion). i get depressed a lot but nobody knows it!! im one of those peple that will smile at the world be your rock and then go cry myself to sleep. it takes a lot to get me going - im usually laughing at other people going "relax, everything's cool, its not a big deal."
Its NOT healthy!!

i think the reasons for my calm abilities go much deeper than that though - a conversation we'll most likely get into over lots of alcohol sometime after youve moved here! Speaking of which - would you move here already?!?!
Have a great day - and always - thanks for your comments!!