so i got into a disagreement with my bf & it cuts me like a knife. it started out with the fact that we originally planned on hanging out on halloween but our 3 ideas for plans fell through & he never communicated to me that he had some ideas for somethings we could do so i was completely in the dark. so friday still no news of any plans so i decide that im going to accept an invite from my friend to go to a party because my bf hadnt said anything. well he ends up getting pissed because i "ditched" him. so i hang out with my friend on halloween & had kinda a crazy night lol & he left town. so i ask him to hang out today but then he cancels cuz he doesnt feel good i assume it was because of drinking. & i get upset over the fact that i have only seen him on monday & thursday. & then he tells me that the relationship is completely one sided & i only take & never give. WTF am i taking? i am a very affectionate girl... like i love kissing, cuddling, holding hands, & dragging my nails across his skin just how he likes it, giving him random back massages lol, & i love teasing him sexually. so what else am i suppose to give? i give my heart, my feelings, my affection, my attention, & my time. i never ask for much from him except his time & attention & even that is hard for him. i feel like a chore in his life. & that i dont belong in his life. he is an amazing guy though like he is a genius, compassionate, he can be sweet, he is funny, & outgoing. but it use to be so much better like he never use to complain about the fact he had to drive half an hour to come see me & he was the first guy to ever give me a flower & this cute lil note & he use to be so much more affectionate & now its fading... i dont know what to do i feel like im sinking<br>
thecicco:
sounds like it is one sided, but not in the way he claims babe