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Ok, dating totally sucks! I just can't seem to win. I'm not that great at meeting girls so I tried online dating. I get a lot of dates, but it seems that every gorl I go out with is really in to me, but I just don't seem to be interested in them.

So I finally meet this girl through a friend's friend and everything seems cool. I am attracted to her and she is attracted to me. I enjoy spending some time with her, but I'm not interested in anything super serious with her. After just a few weeks of dating, her friends are telling everyone how "into her" I am. They practically have me wanting to marry her already. I just don't get it. I am just dating her. From the way they talk, the girl I am dating thinks we're getting serious too. Why can't we *just* date. I'm not opposed to anything serious, but I'm not rushing in to anything. Now I have to either have the talk with her to strighten things out or I have to ignore her to make sure she gets the message. I don't want to do that at all. I hate this shit.