I had a pretty weird day yesterday. First, I ended up in deep conversation with my best friend about why I keep everyone at arm's length, coming to the conclusion that I am afraid of getting hurt, but more to the point I am afraid of what I might do if I do get hurt again as I have in the past. Because I'm done...
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claudette:
Thanks sweetie 
How soberingly depressing it is to wake up one morning and realize that nothing about your life has turned out as you had hoped it would! My job, my friendships, my body and physical condition, my romantic relationships, my family life, my finances, my personal character, all are disappointments. I have nothing to hang my hat on, nothing about which to say, "At least I...
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thistle:
Just because things didn't turn out the way you hoped doesn't mean they're all bad.
I had a weird dream last night. I was playing with/babysitting a baby boy. He was less than a year old, but old enough to crawl. He wasn't my son, I think he might have been my nephew, which is kind of sad because my sister-in-law had a miscarriage two weeks ago. Of maybe it's just hopeful for what the future holds.
In either case,...
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I really hate my job right now. My boss is seriously an idiot. As the months go by it becomes more and more obvious how unqualified she is. She basically doesn't know how to do anything. She could be the poster girl for "good interview, bad worker" employees. I've tried time and again to show her how to do some things, but given how long...
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mezereona:
I love how you know you're enabling, but keep it up anyway. Have you considered that if your boss gets caught screwing up, it may open a position for you? 
I also don't know how your employer requires you address managerial concerns, but you may want to look into that as well.
I completely understand about getting the surprise hauntings. It actually drives me a little batty, so I feel for you.
I also don't know how your employer requires you address managerial concerns, but you may want to look into that as well.
I completely understand about getting the surprise hauntings. It actually drives me a little batty, so I feel for you.