I have recently found myself dipping my toe into the world of fetish and kinky exploration of my sexuality. It had been an interesting, eye opening, erotic, inward searching, and frustrating experience.
Overall my broad sense of the community is that if you are a straight male who is not hung like a horse, it is the hardest thing (no pun intended) to get anyone to trust you or even talk to you unless you float toward being anything other straight. I feel like there is such a stigma of straight men being predators and it has been a constant uphill battle trying to be a part of a community which accepts pretty much any gender or sexual preference. I have not only reached out to as many people as I can within the community but I have on occasion made some online friends and started to build relationships, only to be ghosted or cat fished. Yeah.
I wonder how many of you are into these worlds and what your experience has been.