giablo69

I just found out Grandma got out of her surgery, they went in to remove 1/3rd of her right lung due to cancer. the cancer is spreading and has gotten into her lymph nodes, it will come back and they have now idea how long she has left. My mother has continued to create stress which further agrivates both grandparents poor health and we(the family) have decided to exclude her from any info in regards to them. I am even going to attempt to start excluding her from my life. if she can do all theses things to her own parents I am truly afraid of what she will do to her children and granchildren.

she has been going around telling her freinds so many lies about them and there living conditions that one of those freinds has recently made a trip over to thier house to see if there was any way she could help them out. once she got there and saw how much my mother lied about things she explained to them what mom is saying. she even mentioned the fact that mom has out right said that when they die she will get all of the money and thier house.

my mom is a women whom I barely trusted to start with and now this, I thought I was tough and could handle any thing that happened to me but this has brought tears to my eyes. I havent been afraid of anyone in a very long time and now I fear my mother, how messed up is that? the last time I felt this afraid was when she had told me and my brothers that our father was out to kidnap us. I now wonder if that was even true.



all this terrible news and now to end it on a great note. I am going to be a father. Stephanie and I are expecting both of our first child on christmas day, she is currently 8 1/2 weeks along and doing well. she has been a a godsend of stability for me in this last couple of months and I cannot thank her enough. I am completly in Love with her and am begining to think there is something to the idea of true love afterall.