I am so tired of people’s petty hypocritical bullshit and guilt trips.
If you start saying anything to me with the words “I thought we were good friends, but…” or “I thought we were good friends, and…” and then proceed to try to guilt trip me or make me feel bad then I’m going to go ahead and do the opposite of whatever the fuck you want me to do regardless of my original intentions and I guarantee from that point on you will not be mistaking us for close friends.
Is that hypocritical in itself? Possibly, but I don’t believe so. I have no intention in any scenario of purposefully going out to screw anyone over who I consider a friend, or even anyone I just don’t plain dislike. If I do something or don’t do something there’s always a reason why. If you choose to act passive-aggressive in response to that rather than accepting shit happens then I’m absolutely going to be unpleasant about it.