I'm really confused as to what I want to do for work during my life. For some time I figured it would be in the computer sector. However, I am getting very burnt out with it. I've thought about it a lot over the last few months.
The whole reason I got into computers is that I enjoyed putting them together. Taking peices that cant work on thier own and making them work together. I've found that usually whenever I am working with my hands I am the happiest.
My whole work ethic this last few years has really gotten to me also. I've become extremely lazy. I've been thinking more and more about buying some land out here(it is farm country here) and start busting my butt making my living from that. For some reason I have it in my head that it will be extremely hard work but extremely satisfying also.
The whole reason I got into computers is that I enjoyed putting them together. Taking peices that cant work on thier own and making them work together. I've found that usually whenever I am working with my hands I am the happiest.
My whole work ethic this last few years has really gotten to me also. I've become extremely lazy. I've been thinking more and more about buying some land out here(it is farm country here) and start busting my butt making my living from that. For some reason I have it in my head that it will be extremely hard work but extremely satisfying also.
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It IS your kid, and you guys ARE adults so they really dont have a say. If you wanna be in the kids life, you have every right.
Its totally up to you.
Not her parents.
Hm. I'm sorry. Really I am, I mean, I guess I have been really lucky and have kept myself from making that mistake. I mean, I have to diss on the girl a little bit because there are many things she could have done to prevent herself from getting pregnant, and if I can prevent it for as long as I have, I'm sure she could have too. Carelessness. Utter carelessness, and possibly want to have this happen. I mean it sounds crazy, but maybe in the back of her head she wanted this because let me tell you, its really easy NOT to get pregnant as well...
Good luck hon.