essiedarling

Im lucky to have been raised in a body postive environment. My mother managed my towns local gentlemens club my entier youth. All the SW babes I thought were my "aunts" and bartenders and DJs were my "uncles". I saw nothing wrong with their work. As I got older I noticed not everyone was accepting of it like my family. Im so happy I was...
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Its simple really. Its being proud of who you are despite then gender rolls society has pushed on us to be the "norm". I don't think we were made to ever fit in a box. Its insane to think that everyone should fit in another person box of what is normal and righ. a quote that has I have held onto for a long time...
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I’ll start off by saying I work in the tattoo industry. This event took place in a safe, sterile, and well supervised environment.

This past year I took a huge step away from modeling of all sorts. Strange how one bad experience can have such a rippling effect to cause you to step away from something you were once passionate about. I have decided to take back the happiness and joy I have alway had while moding. Its only a week into the new year and I feel...
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Well, Ill start with the fact I live in Texas so cold days are far and few between. As for chill days at home. I love a clean home, both physically and spiritually. Having a sacred space is amazing for a peaceful mind. My work life is chaotic, so when I have down time where Im able to just vibe at home, Im typically following...
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Honestly Yes. A graveyard is just the burial spot for our meatsuits. Our spirits (or ghost) have much better things to do then hang out with their formal meatsuit. If they do haunt things its typically something they had sentimental values too. Ex: Stuffes animal. Watch. Lanp. Collectable Item. Very rarely will a spirt be superficial and value thier meatsuit more than other things. But...
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Being 70% covered with tattoos, Im always asked "Whats Your Most Painful Tattoo?" I don't think majority of the people who ask want to know that truth or expect that truth. I'll admit I do judge a book by their cover whether they get the lie or the truth. So lets start with the 'lie'. Its not a lie that it hurt, it's the lie...
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This is where I know Im weird. I love my oddity collection. So much so that Im now known for my ever growing collection. I was just recently gifted a large wet specimen ball python. She is absolutely beautiful. I get asked often why am I into oddities and its not about the "morbid" side alot of people relate to death. Its more of giving...
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Well, I am a piercer. I have many stories I can tell about crazy things that happened in my room. But let's talk about my experience. I really wanted my VCH pierced. (Vertical Clitoris Hood) My best friend also wanted hers. She lives 2 hours away from me. I figured Id go to her town to get it done. That way my local piercers and...
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