So this is my first blog post of any kind, anywhere ever. Normally I'm very introverted, but have recently been trying to branch out. I decided my first blog in history should be about a book I'm working on, or more so the chapters I've currently written. This book is about being told to sit down, shut the fuck up and listen. I've combined my opinions with an endless amount of research and credible sources and still a hell of a long way to go, so I'll just get to the point, no worries this will be brief.
Let's just say the first subject I'll write about on here is in someway about love and let's call this "When Practice Doesn't Make Perfect".
You hear about it all the damn time, maybe it's your friends, family or an ex possibly, but when people get married, they get married fast. Anywhere between 6 months and 2 years and if you're on the bachelor or bachelorette it's somehow sooner. I do believe love at first sight exist as I believe it has always existed, but now times have changed. Technology is advanced enough you can jump on any dating site or a site like this one and have 100 love at first sight moments within an hour if you have nothing better to do. And please don't say you believe in it and come back to say having it 100 times in an hour isn't real because it's exactly what it's suppose to be, love at first sight, which isn't real and I lied about it before and if you believe it's real I won't challenge your belief, but I will say get the fuck off the couch and away from the TV for awhile, maybe put down the book too. As beautiful as stories can be of this topic, it's poison to reality and we enable each other. This happens to everyone and everyone believes the "honey moon" phase is real and this can last for years, but when that finally breaks, that's when love gets real. The only way to know if your love will last is to have the highest, angriest, cut throat, relationship/ marriage ending fight, come down from it, realize where you were wrong and change your pissy little attitude to make it right, because you realize you don't want to live without them. You should always treat your woman like a Queen, but only if your woman treats you like a King and vice versa.
Here's a few common sense but rarely practiced rules in love:
Want the love of your life, don't need them.
Respect each other around family, remember who's next to you in the car ride home.
Have some separation in life, whether it's friends, job or personal hobbies.
Dont be proud or stubborn, after a certain point in a fight, you're both wrong.
Ladies, if you're going to dress sexy on a night with the girls, dress sexier in bed for your man.
Gentlemen, listen to and learn about your women, surprise her if she likes it, cook and clean some nights, be confident, not insecure.
Respect and support eachother's dreams and goals.
Let each other go.
-this is just a small part of the chapter, might be a little unorganized but I pay a girl to handle that part.