Am I really the only one that sees marriage as a life long happy commitment. Cut the trials and tribulations bullshit if you got that crap going on in your marriage in the beginning then you got married too soon, or you just plain married the wrong person. What do I have to do now put you on some pedestal because you are married? I... Read More
I completely understand where you are coming from. A close friend of mine is having relationship issues with a woman he only married because she was pregnant, who later ended up cheating on him. He constantly complains and says he is no longer in love with her, but she is unaware of how unhappy he is most of the time. I wish he would have the courtesy to talk to her about it more openly and quit telling other people how unhappy he is.
I don't think people consider the other person in these situations much too often. I don't believe marriage is something that you should do 'because you are supposed to', you should do it because you want to be with someone for the rest of your life. I am currently undecided on whether or not I will ever get married; I want to be with someone forever, but I also don't believe that you need to be recognized by the government or you religion as together, it should only matter that you both feel that way.
Wow, that was a long response....
- I will almost always automatically punch someone when they say "Money can't buy happiness" I'm not greedy or anything but money can save me personally from a lot of problems. It can buy most of what makes me happy, and pay for where I need to be to be happy. pshhh... money can't buy happiness... my fucking ass hole.
- I will usually automatically unfriend someone with a band tattoo. This depends though. Lyrics are okay but logos aren't.
- It makes me want to attack people when they say "I cant tell you what I am thinking" You might as well have told me you aren't thinking anything. now you must tell me. If you don't, someones getting punched in the balls.
I will usually automatically unfriend someone with a band tattoo. This depends though. Lyrics are okay but logos aren't.
-lol, I had a friend in high school who got Korn tattooed across his chest... like, armpit to armpit... silly boy
Being honest makes you way more interesting then being just like everyone else. Don't be afraid to say what you are thinking. Don't be just like everyone else and lie just to seem interesting! you already are!
-you wouldn't expect it, but its oh so true honesty is golden
I have another blog that I don't get personal at all in. Yet I find myself writing snippets of things that I am feeling when I am feeling a bit sentimental so I figured I'll just use this blog as a venting machine.
2 things...
1. I like this guy.. but this guy has a girlfriend..
You can imagine how frustrating that can be being... Read More
Perhaps you should respond to your ex by saying something like; Dude, I'm sorry you obviously are still hung up on me but I'm way out of your league now and I don't have time to field your calls and messages so why don't you do yourself a favor and stop sending me messages that you know I don't care about and will just delete anyway. I am only responding to you now out of pity for you. You need to move on and get a life, I have and I'm better for it.
This way you can tell him he's not worth your time and tell him to go to hell at the same time. As for your being beautiful, I think you're gorgeous and my wife thinks so too. I don't know why you'd ever think you weren't hot and sexy cause that's far from the truth. It sounds like you have the serious hots for this guy friend of yours but let me tell you, you're playing with fire and eventually you're gonna get burned. If you knew that this guy was gonna be with you through thick and thin and that he was worth wrecking his relationship with his girlfriend now so you two could be together, then I'd say persue him till you get him. Sadly it don't sound like he's willing to do that for you and so I'd say keep him as a friend if you want but put him in the do not touch bin of your mind and move on to the next guy. It's especially hard to have a relationship that is truly special when it begins with lies and/ or treachery You deserve more than that type of drama. I don't know if any of this helps you but I wish you luck in what ever you decide to do.
Your boy delimea sucks but I say be friends and dont' think so much about it. But the pretty enough bothered me. You are obviously beautiful and even if you weren't then that still doesn't mean that anyone is not pretty enough for anyone. People get caught up in that and its total BS. And you shouldn't even compare yourself to a girl who YOU think is prettier. That isn't something that matters. Especially not in the situation that are talking about.
urghh, i keep telling myself to forget him lol. & im doing a horrible job at it lol. but i did catch myself being annoyed & somewhat of a bitch to him today. lol
If I was so lucky as to have someone as beautiful as you that actually WANTED me to call them back, I would in a heartbeat. Would be nothing stopping me from calling back.
And it is a shame some people have to give others a hard time when the make a mistake just to make themselves feel better about themselves...