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There is some real petty stupid shit that has been happening on this site. I love the site immensely, but damn. Two points of interest to back me up. #1 (Which I cant understand.) You were on my friends list and now you are gone. Sure random deletions happen. But it doesn't happen with hopefuls, it doesn't happen with your average SG member...
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ridley:
A lot of people only are friend with people with cool journals or who comment and participate regularly. Girls clean out their friends list often. It's not a direct insult to you. It's usually not like they said "fuck that guy." In fact it's probably more like "I don't really know this guy, his journal I don't want to read, he never comments, ok I don't need to keep him around."
Hell some girls accept everyone, then decide that was a bad idea, so they clean out their list of anyone that is not a real friend or who they talk to regularly. It can be any situation and I very much doubt it actually has to do with you as a person as you seem to not be at all active.
rush:
It sounds like you think that since you're a paying member, the SGs should be obligated to add you when you request to be added. It don't work that way.

The second issue you had about whoring for comments... it's a big problem on the site, and staff have told girls never to spam for comments or their set can be removed.

I think if you slightly change your perspective of both issues, you will see why each of them is not really a problem to worry about :-)