drusylla

I promise I am not dead. Just going through a lot right now, including a bankruptcy.
I'll give a proper update when things simmer down a bit.

Yeah I know it's been awhile since I've posted. We've been busy trying to get our shit together before the baby got here with holidays and all.

The good news is we've gotten the bulk of our Christmas shopping done and wrapped up. We just have a few minor things to get tomorrow and wrap them up.

And...Vincent decided to come 9 days early lol...
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We applied for John's VA home loan today. We are hoping to buy a house like now. We can't stand the apartment we're in anymore. Especially since we're paying so much in rent and have nothing to show for it. We could be saving at least $200 via a mortgage and that would be so much better for us financially. If the apartment management jacks...
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We've been super busy. John's oldest sister has hit a rough patch in her marriage. The rest of her family is pushing her to leave her husband and because she is trying to work things out with him, they have all turned their backs on her.

The irony (for me anyway) is that they all claim she needs to leave her husband "for the kids"...
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Well our good news was extrememly short lived (as always). We only got $1500 of the $4600 we were supposed to get back because of John's student loans debt. We weren't able to pay all of the car repairs off but we did pay about half of it. Then the rest of the money went into bills.

John needs 2 crowns done. Our dental insurance...
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We finally got some good fucking news for once.

First, we cleared out storage this weekend. That's an extra $90 a month for us.

We got a letter from the IRS over the weekend too. We're getting back $4600 of our tax refund by the end of July. That will pay off our car repairs, go towards getting a few baby things we need, and...
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Things I've learned while being in a pregnancy board debate group:

1) Women are perfectly okay with their spouses having affairs behind their backs as long as
a) the wife never finds out
b) the husband doesn't impregnant anyone or
c) bring home any STDs
The wife would rather live in fantasyland than admit to herself that there is something wrong with her marriage. Furthermore,...
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