Hello SG world!
So much has been going on since I last updated! I have so much wonderful news to tell you all, I don't know where to start! This is going to be a bit rambly...grab some popcorn and a soda and get comfy.
First of all, I am the girlfriend of someone so sweet and so wonderful I can't even begin to describe all the emotions he makes me feel. I have become one of those nauseatingly happy, giddy girls now that has the great boyfriend that makes all my friends sigh and say "He's so good to you" and makes all my enemies roll their eyes with jealousy. We make time to see one another every day, even if it is just for an hour to watch Third Watch, which is becoming one of my new favorite obsessive cop shows. I just can't believe I have found someone like him. I have gone through so many bad relationships and have been treated like such property for so long, it amazes the hell out of me to think that I have found someone who honestly and truly is with me simply because he loves the PERSON I am, not because he loves what he can get from me.
He knows my entire history, and not only does he not hold that against me, he apologizes for the guys that came before him. He's proven a million times over that he's how a real man should be, and I'm so happy to have found him. If you ask though, he's the lucky one and he's the one who should be thanking god or goddess or fate or karma.
He came to see me at work the other night. He was in uniform, and scared the hell out of my dock workers. They all get blazed in their cars on their break and because he was there they could not. And oh, how that disappointed them. I got confronted about it later...by none other than Mr. Q, too. Everyone else came up and introduced themselves, talked to my cop, made nice...but Mr. Q would not even look at me, let alone him. Jealousy rearing it's ugly head. There's much more of a story regarding this small confrontation we had, but all you all need to know is I handled it very maturely, and very wisely.
I also ran into my Ex-Fiancee last night. More closure. He actually had managed to not hear about my cop, which was good, because I wanted it to come from me. He admitted he'd realized we werent' going to be together, and he just hoped that I was being treated better than he treated me. We're still going to try to be friends, but I doubt it's really going to work, at least on his side. I can honestly say I looked at him last night and felt nothing but the love you have for a friend. I guess everything gets put into perspective when you have someone who is doing right, you know?
Also, a fantastically amazing opportunity presented itself to me at school, and I'm not only taking it, but it puts my future ducks in a row, too. I had been a criminal justice major from the beginning, with the desire to be a forensic crime scene investigator. I switched my major for various reasons, the main one being I wasn't sure how I was going to pay for forensic school once I graduated. It's hard to get grants and loans for something law enforcement specialized like that. My old advisor sought me out the other day to tell me the local county sheriff's department and several local city departments are looking for strong, independent, tough women to work on the force. If I get my degree and go on to the Police Academy, I enter the force with the leverage of a small jump in rank. Once I'm on the force, the state pays for me to go to forensic school. Then, the doors are opened for the TBI, FBI, federal investigation stuff, etc. etc. And all I would owe the sheriff's department is a few years of service. Actually, I'd owe the state a few years of service, which is fine. So, Amy the SG police officer...nice. My cop supports me wholeheartedly...his only negative-ish comment was "wow, we are really going to scare the hell out of our daughter's boyfriends, aren't we? 'this is my dad. he's a cop. this is my mom, she's on the TN Bureau of Investigation.' There goes the boy, running away." haha.
Did you read that? He's planning our future.
I can definitely see it coming true, too.
There's more, but I must go, children! I will update more often, I pinkie promise! Love you!
So much has been going on since I last updated! I have so much wonderful news to tell you all, I don't know where to start! This is going to be a bit rambly...grab some popcorn and a soda and get comfy.
First of all, I am the girlfriend of someone so sweet and so wonderful I can't even begin to describe all the emotions he makes me feel. I have become one of those nauseatingly happy, giddy girls now that has the great boyfriend that makes all my friends sigh and say "He's so good to you" and makes all my enemies roll their eyes with jealousy. We make time to see one another every day, even if it is just for an hour to watch Third Watch, which is becoming one of my new favorite obsessive cop shows. I just can't believe I have found someone like him. I have gone through so many bad relationships and have been treated like such property for so long, it amazes the hell out of me to think that I have found someone who honestly and truly is with me simply because he loves the PERSON I am, not because he loves what he can get from me.
He knows my entire history, and not only does he not hold that against me, he apologizes for the guys that came before him. He's proven a million times over that he's how a real man should be, and I'm so happy to have found him. If you ask though, he's the lucky one and he's the one who should be thanking god or goddess or fate or karma.
He came to see me at work the other night. He was in uniform, and scared the hell out of my dock workers. They all get blazed in their cars on their break and because he was there they could not. And oh, how that disappointed them. I got confronted about it later...by none other than Mr. Q, too. Everyone else came up and introduced themselves, talked to my cop, made nice...but Mr. Q would not even look at me, let alone him. Jealousy rearing it's ugly head. There's much more of a story regarding this small confrontation we had, but all you all need to know is I handled it very maturely, and very wisely.
I also ran into my Ex-Fiancee last night. More closure. He actually had managed to not hear about my cop, which was good, because I wanted it to come from me. He admitted he'd realized we werent' going to be together, and he just hoped that I was being treated better than he treated me. We're still going to try to be friends, but I doubt it's really going to work, at least on his side. I can honestly say I looked at him last night and felt nothing but the love you have for a friend. I guess everything gets put into perspective when you have someone who is doing right, you know?
Also, a fantastically amazing opportunity presented itself to me at school, and I'm not only taking it, but it puts my future ducks in a row, too. I had been a criminal justice major from the beginning, with the desire to be a forensic crime scene investigator. I switched my major for various reasons, the main one being I wasn't sure how I was going to pay for forensic school once I graduated. It's hard to get grants and loans for something law enforcement specialized like that. My old advisor sought me out the other day to tell me the local county sheriff's department and several local city departments are looking for strong, independent, tough women to work on the force. If I get my degree and go on to the Police Academy, I enter the force with the leverage of a small jump in rank. Once I'm on the force, the state pays for me to go to forensic school. Then, the doors are opened for the TBI, FBI, federal investigation stuff, etc. etc. And all I would owe the sheriff's department is a few years of service. Actually, I'd owe the state a few years of service, which is fine. So, Amy the SG police officer...nice.
My cop supports me wholeheartedly...his only negative-ish comment was "wow, we are really going to scare the hell out of our daughter's boyfriends, aren't we? 'this is my dad. he's a cop. this is my mom, she's on the TN Bureau of Investigation.' There goes the boy, running away." haha.
Did you read that? He's planning our future.
I can definitely see it coming true, too.
There's more, but I must go, children! I will update more often, I pinkie promise! Love you!
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that sounds like a dream come true for you... and rock on with the dreams of career... do not worry about the kids... they will still get away with stuff.
lots of love... I should arrange somehow to come visit. Eventually.
~ the angel*