My friend has been having a long distance relationship for 2-3 years now. He actually loves the chick and has put up with a ton of shit. He finally planned on moving back to new york to be with her since she would not accept the idea of coming to Cali. She is happy.
So he goes to visit her, sits on a plane for 15 hours. Gets off the plane. She breaks up with him within a few hours. The she gets mad that he gets back on the plane to fly home that day instead of hanging out with her and her friends for the next week like originally planned....
It reminds me of my own tale. I really feel for him. While talking to him about it though and giving him advice I came to a realization about myself. I started using infatuation with people to keep my mind off my X. I never really had intentions of trying to hook up with them, I was just deluding my self to spare my self the pain. Now though I think that odd self defense sort of thing has tried to intergrate it into my normal life.
Thats not a good habbit to have. I am determined to break it but my current situation with wanting to pounce on my boss is not good either. Or maybe this is just my self defense mechanism jumping in to tell me no.
Ever wonder why you type out random thoughts with no care in the world? I don't, but I do wonder why I often say random thoughts without a care in the world.
On a less confusing note I am going to an odd Metal tribute festival next month. One of the bands playing, "Mini Kiss' is a tribute band of little people. I think they are going to rock.
So he goes to visit her, sits on a plane for 15 hours. Gets off the plane. She breaks up with him within a few hours. The she gets mad that he gets back on the plane to fly home that day instead of hanging out with her and her friends for the next week like originally planned....
It reminds me of my own tale. I really feel for him. While talking to him about it though and giving him advice I came to a realization about myself. I started using infatuation with people to keep my mind off my X. I never really had intentions of trying to hook up with them, I was just deluding my self to spare my self the pain. Now though I think that odd self defense sort of thing has tried to intergrate it into my normal life.
Thats not a good habbit to have. I am determined to break it but my current situation with wanting to pounce on my boss is not good either. Or maybe this is just my self defense mechanism jumping in to tell me no.
Ever wonder why you type out random thoughts with no care in the world? I don't, but I do wonder why I often say random thoughts without a care in the world.
On a less confusing note I am going to an odd Metal tribute festival next month. One of the bands playing, "Mini Kiss' is a tribute band of little people. I think they are going to rock.
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sucks about your friend. that girl needs to be slapped.
Scent that drives girls nuts? man I don't know. The first time I met this kid. (gulp) He's only 21. I feel like a effing cradle robber or Mrs. Robinson, anyways there was no scent. But I was still with, or living with the ex. Even though we weren't together, I wouldn't have started anything new with anyone else. Still hoping for miracles and rainbows and unicorns and other fairytales. The 2nd time though, leather, and soap, polietness, slight colonge, smiles, genuine flattery, eye contact old fashioned whatever I guess.
Options, good to have them if you need them or at least think you do.