cyanide81

Reposting this to add more to the end:

I just dont understand women at all.

This girl ive been talking to, we met in a really odd, unexpected way, and immediately hit it off. We went on a date a couple nights later, and things went really well, and the night ended with a kiss, albeit a small simple one. We started texting before we were even home yet. We texted until almost 3 in the morning for a few nights. She seemed really into me, and i was into her. We talked about a lot of things, and we even talked about sex at great length. We would text all day off and on while we were each at our jobs, and she said she missed me when we werent talking, and i said the same.

Then all of a sudden, out of nowhere, the mood shifted, and she seemed disinterested. In her defense, the first day, she had something happen that was more important, and i understand. Then it seemed she started texting me less and less, and less enthusiastically.

Last night, we texted for a bit, and she seemed more enthusiastic again, although not as much as before, but then out of nowhere, she seemed distant again. Today i havent heard from her yet.

We're supposed to go out on our second date on saturday, but she may have to work late, and i dont know, it just feels like shes not interested anymore.

I havent got a single clue as to what happened. I'm also not sure if im just misinterpreting her texts, since its hard to guage emotion thru text.


Everyone always says the best thing to do is be yourself, but it doesnt work for me. I'm myself, and it seems these women ive been dating out of nowhere just forget i exist.


For years and years ive avoided dating, out of fear of rejection, and now that i am dating, my fears are being realized.


Can someone please offer me some advice? Please more than just "that sucks" or a frowny face.


Edit: ok so she finally texted me tonight, and we talked for a few minutes, and she very abruptly ended with "I gotta go, good night"

I am so fucking confused, and my anxiety is skyrocketing