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Thursday Feb 28, 2013

Feb 28, 2013
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So things are going good for me at the moment.

But I've got a bit of a problem. I met two women on two different dating sites, and I've been talking to both. Ive gone out on a date with one of them. I like both of them. And they both seem to like me. I didn't intend for this to happen, I just messages them both around the same time and they both responded and we hit it off

But before anything goes any further, I have to decide on one. I'm not the type to juggle women. It's disrespectful and wrong. So my problem is, when I decide on who I want to progress with, how do I let the other one down without hurting her feelings too much?

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priapos:
If you believe that dating has to be an exclusive relationship, then rock on with that. I don't get it, but I know perfectly reasonable people who believe the same thing.

Otherwise, you have the option of discussing the situation with both of them. You don't have the option of marrying both of them, at least not yet, but you do have the option of dating both of them without "juggling" them. They have agency.

Many perfectly reasonable people also think like I do. I saw one of your posts in Silliness, and decided to check out your profile. That led me to this blog, on which I wished to comment. I won't take offense if you delete my comment; I probably won't even notice. Best of luck, in whatever case.
Mar 1, 2013
druggist:
Which did you meet first? Why did the other draw attention away from the other? Which one makes you feel like you are discovering something new in yourself? You will know eventually.. I personally believe in pro-con lists...idk if they work for people though
Mar 2, 2013

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