The feeling when your ex-wife proudly posts to facebook she realizes that no one ever owes sex to anyone else and that it was shitty of her exes to insist that she did. Generally, I agree with the sentiment, but I can't help of how she strung me along for two+ years, withholding sex and affection in favor of her other partners, all the while insisting that I pay the bills and raise our child.
She always had some reason that she didn't want to be close to me. When I smoked, it was because I smoked. When I quit smoking, it was because I gained weight. When I joined a weight loss program, it was because I didn't lose it fast enough.
Of course she didn't owe me sex, but she owed me a little honesty, to wit: I don't want to be with you any more, let's do something about that. The first inkling I got was when we went to marriage counseling, and she told the counselor, "I don't know why I'm here. He's the one with the problem."
You know, you think you're finally over a person and then they post something "empowering" to their facebook wall.
