OK so back to the age old decision of leaving for good. I thought I had left for good LAST fucking time and ended out coming back. ::le sigh:: life blows. but check this shit out. my mum has made a contract for me (this isnt unusual, I got em all the time when i lived at home). tell me if this shit is reasonable.....Conditions for coming back home......You have to have your insurance card and have written down Robs SS# BEFORE you come here.
Within 2 weeks of coming here, you must have appointments for a psychiatrist, ob-gyn, and a legal aid attorney.
You will file for legal separation as soon as you have the legal aid appt.
You MUST start taking the medicine the psych. prescribes right away and continue taking it. And keep to the regular appointments for counseling. I will help you with co-pays but you must contribute as well.
You will make an appointment to see what kind of financial aid, etc. you can get for you and the baby.
If you decide to keep the baby, ALL of its care will be your responsibility. You will have to pay (or get financial aid to pay) for all the day care while you are at school and work even if it takes your entire paycheck.
You must go to regular prenatal exams.
You have to keep all your stuff (clothes, shoes, tissues, H &BA) picked up at all times. Your clean clothes will be put away and your dirty clothes and towels will be put in the hamper as soon as you use them. Dirty dishes will be put in the dishwasher or the sink.
You have to keep up with your school assignments, test meetings, WITHOUT being told. You will continue with school at least until you finish your associates.
You have to get a part time LOCAL job. You will KEEP applying EVERYWHERE until you get a job. I will not accept any excuses (i.e. I dont want to work in a fast food place or a place I have to wear a uniform or take out my piercings.)
You will keep yourself clean and presentable.
You will have to contribute money toward your auto insurance and repairs.
You will put a portion of your check into a savings account.
You WILL NOT stay out all night. You will be awake by 9 am every morning (earlier if you have an appointment) and will not lay around and sleep all day or be chatting online all day.
You will abide by a computer usage schedule if everyone winds up fighting to use the computer.
You will stick to your phone minutes (like you have been : ) good job!)
There will be no screaming, arguing, crying, phone calls.
You will not have guests in the house when no one else is home.
You wont have guys in your room with the door closed.
No candles or incense will be burned.
You will have no contact with Rob except through legal channels
You will not date until after the baby is born. And at that time you will act responsibly. Hopefully, you will have been counseled enough to figure out how to avoid your usual guy types.
After you give birth to the baby, you will get Norplant.
No new piercings or tattoos. Actually, I would prefer if you took out your lip ring. You look so much prettier without it.
If you have a dental plan, you will go to the dentist regularly.
Paige can stay here if our cats accept the situation AND you pay for all her shots and neutering (that will be in the ballpark of $300). If you dont want to do that, you will have to take her somewhere and give her up for adoption. The same goes if the cats gets really upset and refuse to eat.
If you leave again, you can't come back another time.
You will understand that if you go back to Rob this time, I will have absolutely no contact with you ever again....
ok whats the verdict??? i hate that she has this fetish with ruling my life. she fucking loves it. you WILL do this, you WILL NOT do that....who says i fuckin wont? shit. and why the fuck am i the only one happy with me. im not working my ass off to change me. I told rob that my mum wants me to move back in. he got upset. He said shit like "no one can get between us; I'd be lost without you; you love me more than anyone ever has (which is true)"......and those are the sort of things that make you all "awwww" and not wanna leave. I do love him. but its one of those good outweighing the bad type things. Do I want to ruin my life sitting about on my ass whilst he's out on tour all the fucking time? Do I wanna sit around being poor forever if this record deal shit DOESNT go thru and we lose it all b/c it's his main focus? Do I wanna sit around all upset 24/7 wondering if he's cheating on me (regardless of if hes on tour or right at home)? Do I wanna go home and be sorry? Will going home be the wrong choice? Does he really love me, or am I just backup? Will I ever truly be happy, and will it be with him? Why the FUCK cant he just love me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? : skull: help
Within 2 weeks of coming here, you must have appointments for a psychiatrist, ob-gyn, and a legal aid attorney.
You will file for legal separation as soon as you have the legal aid appt.
You MUST start taking the medicine the psych. prescribes right away and continue taking it. And keep to the regular appointments for counseling. I will help you with co-pays but you must contribute as well.
You will make an appointment to see what kind of financial aid, etc. you can get for you and the baby.
If you decide to keep the baby, ALL of its care will be your responsibility. You will have to pay (or get financial aid to pay) for all the day care while you are at school and work even if it takes your entire paycheck.
You must go to regular prenatal exams.
You have to keep all your stuff (clothes, shoes, tissues, H &BA) picked up at all times. Your clean clothes will be put away and your dirty clothes and towels will be put in the hamper as soon as you use them. Dirty dishes will be put in the dishwasher or the sink.
You have to keep up with your school assignments, test meetings, WITHOUT being told. You will continue with school at least until you finish your associates.
You have to get a part time LOCAL job. You will KEEP applying EVERYWHERE until you get a job. I will not accept any excuses (i.e. I dont want to work in a fast food place or a place I have to wear a uniform or take out my piercings.)
You will keep yourself clean and presentable.
You will have to contribute money toward your auto insurance and repairs.
You will put a portion of your check into a savings account.
You WILL NOT stay out all night. You will be awake by 9 am every morning (earlier if you have an appointment) and will not lay around and sleep all day or be chatting online all day.
You will abide by a computer usage schedule if everyone winds up fighting to use the computer.
You will stick to your phone minutes (like you have been : ) good job!)
There will be no screaming, arguing, crying, phone calls.
You will not have guests in the house when no one else is home.
You wont have guys in your room with the door closed.
No candles or incense will be burned.
You will have no contact with Rob except through legal channels
You will not date until after the baby is born. And at that time you will act responsibly. Hopefully, you will have been counseled enough to figure out how to avoid your usual guy types.
After you give birth to the baby, you will get Norplant.
No new piercings or tattoos. Actually, I would prefer if you took out your lip ring. You look so much prettier without it.
If you have a dental plan, you will go to the dentist regularly.
Paige can stay here if our cats accept the situation AND you pay for all her shots and neutering (that will be in the ballpark of $300). If you dont want to do that, you will have to take her somewhere and give her up for adoption. The same goes if the cats gets really upset and refuse to eat.
If you leave again, you can't come back another time.
You will understand that if you go back to Rob this time, I will have absolutely no contact with you ever again....
ok whats the verdict??? i hate that she has this fetish with ruling my life. she fucking loves it. you WILL do this, you WILL NOT do that....who says i fuckin wont? shit. and why the fuck am i the only one happy with me. im not working my ass off to change me. I told rob that my mum wants me to move back in. he got upset. He said shit like "no one can get between us; I'd be lost without you; you love me more than anyone ever has (which is true)"......and those are the sort of things that make you all "awwww" and not wanna leave. I do love him. but its one of those good outweighing the bad type things. Do I want to ruin my life sitting about on my ass whilst he's out on tour all the fucking time? Do I wanna sit around being poor forever if this record deal shit DOESNT go thru and we lose it all b/c it's his main focus? Do I wanna sit around all upset 24/7 wondering if he's cheating on me (regardless of if hes on tour or right at home)? Do I wanna go home and be sorry? Will going home be the wrong choice? Does he really love me, or am I just backup? Will I ever truly be happy, and will it be with him? Why the FUCK cant he just love me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? : skull: help
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rumrunner:
Life SUCKS doesn't it 
therealtexasguy:
not for nothing, but about seventy-five percent of those demands are what any loving parent would make...and don't forget that once the baby is born EVERYTHING will change with your mother. believe it or not, they will, trust me.