FRIEND OR FO ??????
how do you know if a friend is really a friend?
is there a check list you have to go through an check off things they do or cant do for you?
does it really matter what people think when you bring ur friends to ur familys / girl or boy friends house?
how do u really know if a friends is true?
how do you know if they are going behind your back?
what are the trems for a truely best friend?
would a real friend lie to ur face?
would a really friend steal from you?
would a real friend tell u when u really looked like shit or would they say you look beautiful?
would a real friend hit on ur boy or girl friend when u are not around or out of town?
why does trust a friend have to be so hard these days?
why is it when friends u have known ur whole life all of a sudden change when u go to high school/ diff city / crowd or just down the street?
why is it when u meet some one online ( chat rooms, myspace, hi5, bebo, facebook, yahoo, hotmail, gmail, dating sites..............) you start talking to them an every thing is ok going good an then next min they dont talk to u respond to emails or phone calls?
is a best friend really a best friend or even a friend when they have lied to your face so many times an then they say they would lay there life down for you out of nowhere or are they just saying that so they can get close to you again cause u have some thing they want?
would a real friend get wit ur ex after just breaking up?
would a real friend watch ur life?
would a real friend die for you?
would a true friend take ur kids in as there own if some thing bad was to happen? ( death, jail, devorce, had to leave for service ...........)
would a real friend trade ur life or friendship over for money or drugs?
how do you know if a friend is really a friend?
is there a check list you have to go through an check off things they do or cant do for you?
does it really matter what people think when you bring ur friends to ur familys / girl or boy friends house?
how do u really know if a friends is true?
how do you know if they are going behind your back?
what are the trems for a truely best friend?
would a real friend lie to ur face?
would a really friend steal from you?
would a real friend tell u when u really looked like shit or would they say you look beautiful?
would a real friend hit on ur boy or girl friend when u are not around or out of town?
why does trust a friend have to be so hard these days?
why is it when friends u have known ur whole life all of a sudden change when u go to high school/ diff city / crowd or just down the street?
why is it when u meet some one online ( chat rooms, myspace, hi5, bebo, facebook, yahoo, hotmail, gmail, dating sites..............) you start talking to them an every thing is ok going good an then next min they dont talk to u respond to emails or phone calls?
is a best friend really a best friend or even a friend when they have lied to your face so many times an then they say they would lay there life down for you out of nowhere or are they just saying that so they can get close to you again cause u have some thing they want?
would a real friend get wit ur ex after just breaking up?
would a real friend watch ur life?
would a real friend die for you?
would a true friend take ur kids in as there own if some thing bad was to happen? ( death, jail, devorce, had to leave for service ...........)
would a real friend trade ur life or friendship over for money or drugs?
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I'm sorry 'bout your friends hunnie. maybe time to move on and make some new ones.
BUT here's what I have learned:
Friends can be deceptive, and stab you in the back. Proving your whole trust in them, everything you had was a fraud. Leave those people, and never look back. Friends can disappoint you, and friends can talk crap about you when you're not around. But ultimately, if they love you, there will be apologies, fogiveness. If you are there for them at their toughest moments, be there and just be there and expect nothing in return. When they come in and rescue you at your toughest moments, the ones where you're at your lowest, and they try their hardest to offer support, then yes, you can trust you have a best friend. People change, and some aren't going to be lifelong like you expected. But there are so many people in this world, you next best bud might be right around the corner. Just talk to people and understand, that they have struggles too, and sometimes when thier's are too big they get blinded to what you're going through, and they just don't have being the best friend they can be to you high on their priority list, you get crowded out. And maybe at some points, they take shit out on you that you didn't deserve, then get angry and defensive because they don't know how to express the fact that they know they hurt you and they are sorry. But friendship isn't about keeping score, of who did what to whom and how bad it was, no. It is about trust, and sometimes if trust is broken, at those pivitol moments, it is revealed who your REAL friends are. They are the ones who you would let do things to you, you would never accept from you greatest enemies, but you would still forgive them. And we are all out for ourselves ultimately, but really all friendship comes down to is love. and honesty. So ya, you will be tested and you'll be the judge, at the end of things. But that's good, you decide.
Trust yourself. Take care of you first and foremost, the rest will all fall into place.
TTY SOON HUN! hope you're getting yourself happier...
NIHLY
Thanks for the add.