So I was invited to my colleague's (Syed) party in the China Club...however, I didn't go. I'm actually glad I didn't go, however, it is kind of annoying when people won't take "no" for an answer. If I were in that same situation, I would let the person go. Syed's co-worker (actually, someone who doesn't even consider him a friend in the first place) was asking me why I couldn't go, like several times. All she wants to do is party, not really celebrating Syed's celebration. That is annoying. I mean, all I want is to rest after work, and people can't accept that? 