This isn't directed at anyone in particular and I know I probably shouldn't post this because I'm pretty sad, confused and bitter but...
Why is it that men pursue me like I'm some golden calf then once they get me they just take me for granted and/or aren't into me anymore? I mean.. I realize that I'm not perfect. I don't drool (much). I'm fairly... Read More
Sadly, most guys are still in the evolutionary stage of being hunters. It's the pursuit that gets their interest, not what happens after they 'win'. So they're quite happy to woo you and try to win you over. And when they do, they lose interest.
It's awful, but it's not because of you. It sucks for you, but just try to remember that it's not because of anything you did or didn't do.
Sucks for guys who really will treat you well if they had the chance, because you might just give up on guys altogether (at least temporarily).
Don't worry about whether you should post something like this in your blog. Yes, they're your personal thoughts, but if it makes you feel better, even just a bit, to share those thoughts with others, then by all means, feel free. We don't mind listening.
I'm really sorry you are being treated the way you are...Northern12 pretty much said it all in his post. Alot of men just don't know what to do after they have you,,,,I think alot of it is that you are getting guys that are too young and not emotionally secure/mature whatever you want to call it. Me personally, i am not looking for a relationship and am pretty up front with it. I think that if more people (guys in your case) would be up front and honest with what they are looking for in a relationship then things would be alot better for everyone involved.
I hope you don't give up on us forever, as the old saying goes there are plenty of fish in the ocean and there is the right guy for you. Not all of us are so terrible, give the nice guys a chance, you might be supprised.
Wow today was a long day! I got sorta alot done. I ran around paying a few errands, visited my mom and sister, finally convinced her to let me make a doctors appointment for her (long story). Victory! Mom bought me a pink zipup that's pretty cute and cuddly.
Some friends of mine were talking about music and I felt like my head was going... Read More
I've been "seeing" someone for 7 months now. It hasn't gone beyond a few hours a week. It's a few hours of absolute bliss but it's only a few hours. He say to wait. He has things to do first. But what about me? The reality of it all is really... Read More
What really sux is that when you wake in the middle of the night and can't get back to sleep, so you go chat... I'll be at freakin work! The shutdown was great for makin friends on here, but alas work shall do it's best to tear us apart... Keep in touch, my dear
What Cosmo said - if you're not getting what you want and you're not satisfied and there's no signs you'll ever BE satisfied (and if a guy tells you wait? trust me, he wants you to wait forever while HE's having a good time) then it's time.
And yup, chat is alot of fun on many levels - I'm trying to stay in the higher ones
Gratz on the graduation, that's way cool! (counting on fingers) - ok, not asking....
It's an amazing looking piece - could you not maybe get something different elsewhere with the Kanji or elvish?
It'd be a shame to ruin that lovely shading. I'd be wanting to do a couple of tests on paper and then with a marker on your skin before embarking on that.
- and you never have enough toys! 
