WOW! who are all the great cooks huh? I'm going to have an SG dinner party and you're all invited!!! MMM so much inspiration.. thank you so much guys I lvoe cooking its like my life! so to get so many good ideas is wonderful!!!!
Well I had a lovely day off except for the fact Adrian had to pull an all nighter at work... I fell asleep on the couch to wake up to him rummaging through the fridge @ 1am... he had just come home to get some clothes and some food
I dont like sleeping without him.... but I like having the bed to myself so I concentrate on that.. but of course Im up mega early as it just feels weird when he's not there... he's been by my side everymorning for 2 years (minus 2 days - we've only been apart 2 days the time we've been going out) neeewayyy I'll see him tonight... but his sleep patterns are going to be all fucked up now....
Anyway something I wanted to talk about... I read the Vagina Monologues the other day after a mistress brought it in for me to read... I just thought it was celebrity bullshit that they all jump on cause its cool and it says the word 'vagina' alot in it... but actually reading it ... its an amazing book and really made me think.... I didnt relate to alot of it because I've had a very liberated childhood where sex was open for discussion all the time and noone was embarressed to answer your question... but what these women in the book have gone through is just so sad... its basically a collection of stories from interviewing all women from all walks of life in every age group and asking them the same questions about their vagina and sex and masturbation..... its basically now a campaign to stop violence against women now...the 2 stories that made me cry was an old lady about 85 telling the story of her first sexual experience... she ejaculated (she doesnt know she ejactulated) when this boy that she liked had kissed her... and he had been so disgusted that he throw her right out of the car and she was tagged 'smelly girl' from then on.... and she never really had sex for enjoyment for the rest of her life after that.... and another about a little black girl who was just constantly abused and told how 'down there' was bad and she was never to touch it...
I just made me sad the whole thing....... I grew up in the 80's where it was g-spot this and orgasm that... society as a whole had become aware of the clitoris... I am incredibly lucky... but what the rest of these women went through... is horrible.... I cant imagine how it would feel to have so much guilt and fear associated with a natural part of your body, the part of your body which also has something designed purely for pleasure.........
Anyway a must read for everyone girl or boy out there.... its a real eye opener....
Happy day to you all!
hahah I had a dream Voltaire was trying to save me from cheating on my boyfriend.... Voltaire and I had been out clubbing as Adrian had to work and I'd had a tantrum.. and well I picked up this boy and we all went bak to my house but Voltaire ushered him out when I wasnt looking so I wouldnt cheat on my boyfriend hahahahhaha good one Voltaire!
Question: What style do you usually dream in... surrealistic, everyday life,
is it through your eyes or like through the lens of a camera or are you watching yourself? is it colour or black and white?
Well I had a lovely day off except for the fact Adrian had to pull an all nighter at work... I fell asleep on the couch to wake up to him rummaging through the fridge @ 1am... he had just come home to get some clothes and some food
I dont like sleeping without him.... but I like having the bed to myself so I concentrate on that.. but of course Im up mega early as it just feels weird when he's not there... he's been by my side everymorning for 2 years (minus 2 days - we've only been apart 2 days the time we've been going out) neeewayyy I'll see him tonight... but his sleep patterns are going to be all fucked up now....
Anyway something I wanted to talk about... I read the Vagina Monologues the other day after a mistress brought it in for me to read... I just thought it was celebrity bullshit that they all jump on cause its cool and it says the word 'vagina' alot in it... but actually reading it ... its an amazing book and really made me think.... I didnt relate to alot of it because I've had a very liberated childhood where sex was open for discussion all the time and noone was embarressed to answer your question... but what these women in the book have gone through is just so sad... its basically a collection of stories from interviewing all women from all walks of life in every age group and asking them the same questions about their vagina and sex and masturbation..... its basically now a campaign to stop violence against women now...the 2 stories that made me cry was an old lady about 85 telling the story of her first sexual experience... she ejaculated (she doesnt know she ejactulated) when this boy that she liked had kissed her... and he had been so disgusted that he throw her right out of the car and she was tagged 'smelly girl' from then on.... and she never really had sex for enjoyment for the rest of her life after that.... and another about a little black girl who was just constantly abused and told how 'down there' was bad and she was never to touch it...
I just made me sad the whole thing....... I grew up in the 80's where it was g-spot this and orgasm that... society as a whole had become aware of the clitoris... I am incredibly lucky... but what the rest of these women went through... is horrible.... I cant imagine how it would feel to have so much guilt and fear associated with a natural part of your body, the part of your body which also has something designed purely for pleasure.........
Anyway a must read for everyone girl or boy out there.... its a real eye opener....
Happy day to you all!
hahah I had a dream Voltaire was trying to save me from cheating on my boyfriend.... Voltaire and I had been out clubbing as Adrian had to work and I'd had a tantrum.. and well I picked up this boy and we all went bak to my house but Voltaire ushered him out when I wasnt looking so I wouldnt cheat on my boyfriend hahahahhaha good one Voltaire!
Question: What style do you usually dream in... surrealistic, everyday life,
is it through your eyes or like through the lens of a camera or are you watching yourself? is it colour or black and white?
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My cousin did once...she said the dream had something to do with Taco Bell burritos. If I'd been dreaming about that, I'd have laughed myself awake, too.
lexi