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I am interested. My first shoot with a future SG girl didn't make for some blah reasons. When and where and what do you have in mind? Waking up pissed at the roofers could be some payback...

Thats awesome. ill have to tell my girlfriend about your class. We live right by the 118 in Granada Hills.

Shameless self promotion...
sounds cool but Imma good 2000 miles away.

I am doing the exact situation
but I dont really recommend getting back together
like you said you must have broken up for a reason
I used to think if you get along so well you should get back together but I dont know lol

I was still i nlove with an ex of mine... I was in the military, she was a producer for a large spanish network... the distance killed our relationship... but we kept in touch... i thought i had a chance... she met some guy and is getting married, -4 month relationship with a guy 15 years older-.... have your fun while you can, but its more than likely someone is gonna get hurt... she doesnt even want to hear from me ever again... oh well

sounds like ur doing good
did you get over that guy that wasnt treating you right?

It's already been covered, but it's just a matter of patience and time. The good ones are out there, and I'm sure there are plenty who would make themselves available if you asked them to.

Hopefully you're feeling better about the situation now and are enjoying yourself.

If only my turnaround time since the last one had been days. Right now I'm goin on months. And why the fuck don't you girls think we'd like a nice bath with a foot masage once in awhile. Jk. It can't be that hard to find someone to do all those things you want and more.

Wow, things arn't goin so smooth. Hopefully when the Sun starts shining more and spring rolls in things get better.

yes, myspace has given a whole new source of pain and confusion when it comes to breakups.

xo

I salsa, but I'm not back in Cali for another week. When I'm there though it would be fun.

...any advice on what to do with all the things that remind you of the one that broke your heart???

According Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), you established a multitude of anchors that you associated with your ex. You can consciously try to remove each anchor, i.e. fill that sugar bowl with something you dislike, like old cigarette butts since your step father has lung cancer and you are trying to quit smoking. However, as long as your ex is still on your mind, when you look at the world you will always find something out there that reminds you of your relationship with him. Your reality tunnel is fixed on him. So until you change your perception, he will still haunt you.

Just keep on dancing and eventually you'll discover a handsome partner that isn't gay. When I look at your pictures, I wish I was gay and knew how to dance.

I believe he is acting like a child and it totally sucks that he was selfish and never finished you off,even if not in a relationship,just a fling,it's the nice thing to do as a person not to leave someone hanging,what a fucking tool,you do not need him,you rock,get a guy who is sweet and won't leave you hanging like that,I'd never put up with that,fortunately I've never had to,woot.knock on wood.hehe wood.That horrible about that whole heard it through a grape vine thing,guys can be dumb sometimes,news like that always gets around.Silly boys
anywhoo things will get better and i'd never let you not get finished off tee hee

hmm still no new stuff on here,I hope its cuz ur out kicking his lame ass

thanks for the add.

Burningman is fun.

Have you been to Burningman before?

One thing that us guys tend to do is keep our options open. Even if it means throwing away something (or someone) great. The fact that he's still living with his parents speaks to his fear of facing life and its tough decisions. My only advice is to hold him to it. Leave. If he comes crawling back, you'll have a decision to make. If he doesn't, well...then he was telling you the truth. Sorry.
I don't think the best way to move on is to find someone new. I think a mini vacation may be in order. Maybe a bitchfest with the girls and a mountain of ice cream. Burning pictures and keep-sakes can be theraputic too. (I like to keep something) After that, pour yourself into work/art/hobbies.
Good luck.

That sounds exactly like what my ex (of 2 yrs) just did to me 2 weeks ago.i'm doing all the things that i put on the backburner. do the things you enjoy and bring you happiness. writing helps alot too. gets all of your thoughts to one place, and allows you to see how you really feel about the whole situation. who knows you might just be better off with out him.

[Edited on Feb 22, 2006 3:27AM]

Where in Europe?

Where in Europe?