Birth control pills do in a sense unload so the vest analogy isn't perfect. I often wonder if they're designed for women because men made the decision or that it's not been possible to suppress sperm production in any effective or safe manner.
I'm sure you inspire more people than you know. Your sets on there are by far the nicest, most inspired and beautifully realized of all I saw, which was by no means a few. I'm not being nice, just telling it as I see it.