Well. It's been awhile since I've posted a blog.
So I've been trying to come to grips with what I want in a relationship. I have been on various dating websites and have been on quite a few dates. Most have been only 1 date. 1 lasted a few months. But last nights date was a bit... strange...
Usually, the ladies I have met want to take things slow and that's cool. I've jumped into a relationship fast and regretted it. Plus, I never kiss on a first date... It's just a personal thing. So, this girl messaged me a few weeks ago. We messaged back and forth for a week and moved to texting and phone calls the second week. She was cool, but not awesome. She didn't get why I loved comic conventions and she didn't understand my nerdy/geeky side. She accepted it, but simply didn't understand.
I met last night for the first time. She was extremely excited and so was I. We got sushi to go and ate at the beach. It was cold, but we cuddle up together. When it started to rain, we went into my car to continue to talk. She wanted to cuddle up again. Okay, it was a bit strange to me. While we were cuddling, she started to kiss me. We started making out and I forced myself to stop. I told her I don't want to go that fast. It's only our first date. She made the point that the only way to avoid the friend zone. So we continued to cuddle and make out until midnight. On my drive home, I couldn't get the feeling of being rushed out of my head. Usually after a good date, I'm all smiles and want to see her again. After this date, I felt weirded out and very hesitant to see her again.
I'd like to hear what are some ways to handle this because I was completely blind sided by this date...
On a side note, I went to Wonder Con on Saturday. Me and my friend tried to get into the Evil Dead signing, but out of the 5 draws for the raffle to get a bracelet for the signing, we got crap. We did see...
Well. It's been awhile since I've posted a blog.
So I've been trying to come to grips with what I want in a relationship. I have been on various dating websites and have been on quite a few dates. Most have been only 1 date. 1 lasted a few months. But last nights date was a bit... strange...
Usually, the ladies I have met want to take things slow and that's cool. I've jumped into a relationship fast and regretted it. Plus, I never kiss on a first date... It's just a personal thing. So, this girl messaged me a few weeks ago. We messaged back and forth for a week and moved to texting and phone calls the second week. She was cool, but not awesome. She didn't get why I loved comic conventions and she didn't understand my nerdy/geeky side. She accepted it, but simply didn't understand.
I met last night for the first time. She was extremely excited and so was I. We got sushi to go and ate at the beach. It was cold, but we cuddle up together. When it started to rain, we went into my car to continue to talk. She wanted to cuddle up again. Okay, it was a bit strange to me. While we were cuddling, she started to kiss me. We started making out and I forced myself to stop. I told her I don't want to go that fast. It's only our first date. She made the point that the only way to avoid the friend zone. So we continued to cuddle and make out until midnight. On my drive home, I couldn't get the feeling of being rushed out of my head. Usually after a good date, I'm all smiles and want to see her again. After this date, I felt weirded out and very hesitant to see her again.
I'd like to hear what are some ways to handle this because I was completely blind sided by this date...
On a side note, I went to Wonder Con on Saturday. Me and my friend tried to get into the Evil Dead signing, but out of the 5 draws for the raffle to get a bracelet for the signing, we got crap. We did see the panel and Bruce Campbell was hilarious as usual and Jane Levy was gorgeous.
I love me a red head...
I'm not a huge fan of slasher films, but I'm interested in this one... I really need to watch the original Evil Deads and Army of Darkness
I bought a few things for my station at work and looked around. It's a nice pre SDCC preparation!
My coworker asked me to buy this and he'll pay me back.
Street Fighter cosplayers at the Capcom booth.
Man, I just spent the last 2 hrs typing this blog up...
So I've been trying to come to grips with what I want in a relationship. I have been on various dating websites and have been on quite a few dates. Most have been only 1 date. 1 lasted a few months. But last nights date was a bit... strange...
Usually, the ladies I have met want to take things slow and that's cool. I've jumped into a relationship fast and regretted it. Plus, I never kiss on a first date... It's just a personal thing. So, this girl messaged me a few weeks ago. We messaged back and forth for a week and moved to texting and phone calls the second week. She was cool, but not awesome. She didn't get why I loved comic conventions and she didn't understand my nerdy/geeky side. She accepted it, but simply didn't understand.
I met last night for the first time. She was extremely excited and so was I. We got sushi to go and ate at the beach. It was cold, but we cuddle up together. When it started to rain, we went into my car to continue to talk. She wanted to cuddle up again. Okay, it was a bit strange to me. While we were cuddling, she started to kiss me. We started making out and I forced myself to stop. I told her I don't want to go that fast. It's only our first date. She made the point that the only way to avoid the friend zone. So we continued to cuddle and make out until midnight. On my drive home, I couldn't get the feeling of being rushed out of my head. Usually after a good date, I'm all smiles and want to see her again. After this date, I felt weirded out and very hesitant to see her again.
I'd like to hear what are some ways to handle this because I was completely blind sided by this date...
On a side note, I went to Wonder Con on Saturday. Me and my friend tried to get into the Evil Dead signing, but out of the 5 draws for the raffle to get a bracelet for the signing, we got crap. We did see...