The pain i've been having became totally unbearable by Monday evening. I went back to the emergency room and told them that whatever I was prescribed wasn't helping one bit. They gave me more stuff, which didn't do any good either.
I was admitted to the hospital where I spent the last two nights. I was given all kinds of powerful meds and antibiotics to...
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I was admitted to the hospital where I spent the last two nights. I was given all kinds of powerful meds and antibiotics to...
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Last I posted I thought I was on my way to recovery from my mouth infection and looking forward to relief from the pain and swelling. I couldn't heve been more wrong
By 6 or 7 o'clock last night, I was feeling excrutiating pain beyond anything i'd ever felt in my life. I had double hernia surgery last year less than two weeks after having...
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By 6 or 7 o'clock last night, I was feeling excrutiating pain beyond anything i'd ever felt in my life. I had double hernia surgery last year less than two weeks after having...
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constentine:
I hope u feel better xoxox
ted_stryker:
I know everything will be ok with you, my Friend. You are in my thoughts and I know you will be back on your feet in no time! Take care!
I was supposed to have a tooth pulled next Friday. Last night, I had the most excruciating pain i'd ever felt. My gums around the bad tooth swelled up and really hurt. If I touched the area with my finger or my tongue, i was in agony.
I got a hold of my dentist by calling an emergency number. He told me to come in...
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I got a hold of my dentist by calling an emergency number. He told me to come in...
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mydogfarted:
My dad had two root canals done in 3 weeks. Bad teeth suck.
sherrillee:
I'm hoping that with the meds the pain is manageble. Waiting until Friday for an extraction has to feel like an eternity. Take care. Hugs!
I couldn't sleep at all last night. I tossed and turned and got out of bed about five times. No luck. I went on SG about 6:30, replied to a pm, posted a comment and went back to bed to try to fall asleep one more time. I had to get up soon and was dreading having to drag myself around all day not having...
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southernguynj:
glad to hear you had a great time at the ball game. I've never been to a major league game but have been to my fair share of Skins games over the years. And looking forward to the third season of being a Devils season ticket holder. Keep smiling brotha!
dryad:
there may have been a bit of cussing...
Not that the parents / coaches were shining examples, if I do judge by appearances. Which I do.
Not that the parents / coaches were shining examples, if I do judge by appearances. Which I do.
I had a great day Saturday. I spent it with a new friend that I had met at the social group that I recently joined. We went into Manhattan, had lunch and saw District 9. I recommend this movie very much. This was beyond your generic sci-fi offering.
After the movie, we walked around the city for a while, stopped for a soda and sat...
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After the movie, we walked around the city for a while, stopped for a soda and sat...
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aldremech:
My friend and I at work were just discussing that, then he realized I might be out of the shop before he is. Now it is a race 
He has a interview in Seattle on Friday.
He has a interview in Seattle on Friday.
missmir:
I hope you have fun at the game! I've always wanted to go to a baseball game. ...Maybe when Hendrix is older. I think at his age he would not understand and just be bored.
Thanks to all of you who sent me happy birthday wishes. They meant a lot to me. I know I replied to you individually, but I also want to thank you collectively as well.
As some of you realize and have even mentioned to me at times, I'm very sensitive, or should I say, oversensitive. I tend to blow things out of proportion, which causes...
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As some of you realize and have even mentioned to me at times, I'm very sensitive, or should I say, oversensitive. I tend to blow things out of proportion, which causes...
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velvet_petal:
Glad you had a happy birthday.
As for the other, well....thats not really anything I can give solid advice about.
As for the other, well....thats not really anything I can give solid advice about.
ferkixlll:
It is hard to feel on the backside of someones "to do" list.
As an exercise, when troubled that way, try to imagine that
the world is running 40min late and everyone wishes that they
could have got to the john 15min ago. Things are not going copeacetic
because of malice but merely preoccupation.
My best to you.
As an exercise, when troubled that way, try to imagine that
the world is running 40min late and everyone wishes that they
could have got to the john 15min ago. Things are not going copeacetic
because of malice but merely preoccupation.
My best to you.
So, this Friday is my 62nd birthday. I'll be the only SG member to be eligible for Social Security in two days. I'm grateful to all the people who made me feel that I belonged. I'm also very proud of myself for being able to fit in with all the young people here.
I'll be spending my actual birthday looking at an apartment that I...
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I'll be spending my actual birthday looking at an apartment that I...
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benzai_ten:
Happy Birthday (sorry that it is a liitle late)
I hope that you had a wonderful weekend- Manhattan, that has to be a good time no matter what you were doing.
My wish for you goes far beyond just one day - it is for now and always: that you find the peace, companionship, love and passion that you so richly deserve.
*BIG HUG* to you.
I hope that you had a wonderful weekend- Manhattan, that has to be a good time no matter what you were doing.
My wish for you goes far beyond just one day - it is for now and always: that you find the peace, companionship, love and passion that you so richly deserve.
*BIG HUG* to you.
lyrical:
I feel aweful that I've missed your birthday. I don't feel as if I've been the best friend as if I could possibly have been. I seem to keep losing touch with reality since I've moved.
Happy 62nd birthday. I hope that you and your family have celebrated well. With laughs and cheers. How are you grand kids?
I hope that they are well.
I have had some feed back for shooting a set, but I haven't decided whom I will shoot with. In due course.
Sean and I are wonderful, and I haven't asked him yet. I'm thinking I will or I won't. It really all depends if I get a proper job. Because when and if I do ask, I want to have a proper ring to do so.
You also must keep in mind that when we do get married it will be in NYC. So saving money to come to England won't be needed at all. I am well however I've developed some allergies since I've moved, other than that I'm doing just fine. I hope that you are well. Talk to you soon lovely.
<3 I miss you
xx
Happy 62nd birthday. I hope that you and your family have celebrated well. With laughs and cheers. How are you grand kids?
I hope that they are well.
I have had some feed back for shooting a set, but I haven't decided whom I will shoot with. In due course.
Sean and I are wonderful, and I haven't asked him yet. I'm thinking I will or I won't. It really all depends if I get a proper job. Because when and if I do ask, I want to have a proper ring to do so.
You also must keep in mind that when we do get married it will be in NYC. So saving money to come to England won't be needed at all. I am well however I've developed some allergies since I've moved, other than that I'm doing just fine. I hope that you are well. Talk to you soon lovely.
<3 I miss you
xx
I'm feeling a little better today. Unlike my blog of about 10 days ago, i'm promising myself that i'm not going to have any regrets about what i'm about to post.
My daughter, Heather, came back from a ten day trip to Paris and Amsterdam. She showed me pictures and told me all about the trip that she and her friend took together. She had...
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My daughter, Heather, came back from a ten day trip to Paris and Amsterdam. She showed me pictures and told me all about the trip that she and her friend took together. She had...
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sunshine:
AWW THANKS! I'm glad that you feel that way! yeah, the blog is almost finished. I'll probably proof read it and post it tomorrow! I'm excited!
I'm glad that you feel that way! yeah, the blog is almost finished. I'll probably proof read it and post it tomorrow! I'm excited!
scarletletterman:
Thanks for sharing that story. For the record, I'm 100% certain that Annette is just happy because you are happy. I'm also certain that Lyrical came into your life at just the perfect time. There are no accidents. Everything in life happens the way it's supposed to, so hold your head up high and be at peace.
The Depeche Mode shows at the
Hollywood Bowl were pretty amazing as always. This was my 14th time seeing Depeche Mode in concert since 1984. I was just a kid when I saw them back in 1984. As I danced, jumped, cheered, and screamed throughout the night, I realized that I have literally grown up with Depeche Mode. They have played an important role in my life from childhood, right through adolescence, and now into adulthood. I find that pretty amazing!
The Depeche Mode shows at the
Hollywood Bowl were pretty amazing as always. This was my 14th time seeing Depeche Mode in concert since 1984. I was just a kid when I saw them back in 1984. As I danced, jumped, cheered, and screamed throughout the night, I realized that I have literally grown up with Depeche Mode. They have played an important role in my life from childhood, right through adolescence, and now into adulthood. I find that pretty amazing!
As I was waiting for a bus yesterday, I saw an older couple walk by. They both looked like they were in their 70's and were almost certainly married. They looked in good health as they walked past me at a good pace.
I observed the way they held hands. Each person's fingers were interlocked with the other person's. There was a real closeness there....
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I observed the way they held hands. Each person's fingers were interlocked with the other person's. There was a real closeness there....
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grayb:
I've felt that way a few times over the years after traumatic breakups with wives and girlfriends. Maybe I'm lucky - I've had much practice throughout my life dealing with this sort of trauma.
I've know others our age who have lost a longtime companion and, sometimes even when they did not expect to, found someone new and very special. I've known some who never found another special someone but enjoyed the company of several others and lived rich lives. I know of at least two unhappy individuals who quite literally gave in to their misery and withered and died within a couple years of their loss.
The choice is up to you. You have a hard road - you've not only lost your lifetime love but you are facing difficult times on many other fronts. You're doing your best to find employment. I believe that you are looking for a new place to live. These are two things that I detest doing and find extremely stressful. I know that I am not alone in these feelings.
Please try to concentrate on the good things in your life. You have your wonderful daughters and grandchildren. Find joy in the new friends that you are making and the friends that you already have. Live your life and pursue your interests and someone will come along. They always do. Just stay on the path, keep getting the other facets of your life in order and you'll fine. Probably much better than fine. One day you'll wake up and you'll be happy.
Struggling in and suffering reversals because of these troubled and difficult times does not reflect badly on you. Suffering a great loss does not make you a loser. These things are up to you to decide. You have a new life. The slate has been wiped clean. So many people say that they want to start over. You can.
I'm cheering for you. I know that others are too.
All the best...
I've know others our age who have lost a longtime companion and, sometimes even when they did not expect to, found someone new and very special. I've known some who never found another special someone but enjoyed the company of several others and lived rich lives. I know of at least two unhappy individuals who quite literally gave in to their misery and withered and died within a couple years of their loss.
The choice is up to you. You have a hard road - you've not only lost your lifetime love but you are facing difficult times on many other fronts. You're doing your best to find employment. I believe that you are looking for a new place to live. These are two things that I detest doing and find extremely stressful. I know that I am not alone in these feelings.
Please try to concentrate on the good things in your life. You have your wonderful daughters and grandchildren. Find joy in the new friends that you are making and the friends that you already have. Live your life and pursue your interests and someone will come along. They always do. Just stay on the path, keep getting the other facets of your life in order and you'll fine. Probably much better than fine. One day you'll wake up and you'll be happy.
Struggling in and suffering reversals because of these troubled and difficult times does not reflect badly on you. Suffering a great loss does not make you a loser. These things are up to you to decide. You have a new life. The slate has been wiped clean. So many people say that they want to start over. You can.
I'm cheering for you. I know that others are too.
All the best...
lizaeth:
Don't assume that they have been a happy couple "all these years." And if they have been, one of them still has to go through what you are going through now. I hate to put it like that but, one of them is in for a world of hurt. Unless they are lucky enough to go at the same time. Then poor poor family.
I don't know what can make you feel better. Your are just gonna have to continue to deal with Annettes death for the rest of your life. Just try to put it someplace where it can be OK. I think a lot of people would rather be in your place, mourning a lifetime of love and a life of loneliness, heart break and bad relationships.
I don't know what can make you feel better. Your are just gonna have to continue to deal with Annettes death for the rest of your life. Just try to put it someplace where it can be OK. I think a lot of people would rather be in your place, mourning a lifetime of love and a life of loneliness, heart break and bad relationships.
I've been going to a social group on Tuesdays for the past month or so. I've met about a dozen people,who all seem pretty nice. I've done a few things with a handful of people in the group, both men and women, like dinner, a movie, just talking on the phone and hanging out.
There's a woman in the group named Ellen. She's 57 years...
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There's a woman in the group named Ellen. She's 57 years...
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allied:
Yeah, the Yankees are surprising me a bit. Most wins in baseball. I knew they'd paid enough for the best, but they didn't seem able to put things together until now. I wasn't a Girardi fan, but I have to hand it to him. He's done a great job.
Glad to hear you're getting out there, and that you're being cautious. Good for you.
Glad to hear you're getting out there, and that you're being cautious. Good for you.
southernguynj:
ha haaa!!! flippin' fantastic, the cool guy is out and about!!!
how big is that grin myfriend???
positive thoughts coming your way.......
how big is that grin myfriend???
positive thoughts coming your way.......
I was having a casual conversation with a 30 something woman the other day. Out of nowhere, she says the following. "You're very handsome, for an older man."
It would have been nicer if she stopped after "handsome".
It would have been nicer if she stopped after "handsome".
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ferkixlll:
But think of how things might have turned if
she added; 'And I adore older men!'
Too bad the art of complimenting is fadeing away.
You've got it over alot of kids a fraction of our age.
she added; 'And I adore older men!'
Too bad the art of complimenting is fadeing away.
You've got it over alot of kids a fraction of our age.
liathach:
I take all the compliments I can get these days!
And, yes, it is a wonderful place to escape to. Relatively unpopulated and with hardly any 'visitor attractions', if you know what I mean. Just beautiful landscape.
And, yes, it is a wonderful place to escape to. Relatively unpopulated and with hardly any 'visitor attractions', if you know what I mean. Just beautiful landscape.
I don't usually post a new blog this soon after the previous one. I decided to do so because I wasn't totally comfortable with the things I spoke about in my last blog. I know i'm human and have certain needs and desires just like anyone else. And, of course, this is SG after all.
Yet, there still was a certain level of discomfort that...
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Yet, there still was a certain level of discomfort that...
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ted_stryker:
Age is only a number and as far as the "innuendos" it is perfectly natural to appreciate a good looking woman in public, it shows that you are still alive!
erinya:
to the right place and to the right hands...
this weekend is the fetish in montreal, i doubt i'll be back on SG until monday...so, rest and heal!