For future reference, it's McClure. I would never expect you to have already known that. You could have put it to Amy Sunshine and I would have thought that was perfectly normal!
So, I got into an interesting conversation with a friend at work. Deceptively simple on the surface: What constitutes cheating?
But it's interesting really. Particularly from our different perspectives (she's VERY single, and I'm very married).
We all have things that are definitely okay (non-erotic conversations) and things that definitely aren't (fucking in a shared bed - with someone else). But what about all that... Read More
It's actually a fine line and very much up to the people involved in the relationship. It's a hard call between being faithful and still maintaining one's own self. It also has a lot to do with jealousy which is merely the perception that someone else is getting something that you want that you in fact are not getting. I don't ever want to tell Jason that he can't flirt with girls or have crushes on other girls or anything like that because I know those are just normal parts of life and I don't want him to give up normal parts of life in order to be with me.
On the other hand, as someone who was married to one guy while being in love with another guy, I also know that seriously wanting to be with someone else is a HUGE sign that something is wrong with the relationship. I guess, to sum up, if either I or Jason ever felt like there was danger of one of us cheating, we would need to figure some things out. But since I trust both of us to admit to the potential of trouble before the actuality of trouble hits, I'm less likely to worry about him flirting with or being friends with other girls. I'm not sure that answers the question you asked, but it's an answer nonetheless.
Hey...so....I'm back and stuff. Did you miss me, beautiful lady?! I missed you tons!
So, for my first comment back...the cheating thing...
I think that a safe definition of what is cheating is anything that you know would hurt your significant other if he/she found out about it. If I go have lunch with a male co-worker, it's not cheating if I can come home and say "Oh, so today, I went to lunch with so-and-so" and know that it's not going to hurt JP in any way. If it's something you can come home and tell your partner about at the end of the day and know that he/she won't get upset or hurt... then it's ok. It's when you get into the secretive stuff and keeping things from one another that things go bad.
A quick update because the sarcasm of this was apparently lost in text.
"Happy Mother's Day, I hope it was a good one."
And you know what? It really was. Not because you got up early and took care of the baby so I could sleep in. Not because you so clearly went out of your way to make me feel treasured and important and... Read More
The bitch is getting ready.To make my life unsteady.I don't care.I just want a surprise.I should be just sound.My fish died today.Choked on my lines today.A razor in a mini skirt.Laughing when you kissed the dirt.Kafka's no bedtime story.And you're no morning glory.Mighty Mouse.Why don't you call it a day?I should be just sound.The bitch is getting ready.To make my life unsteady.I don't care.I just... Read More
and again i say:
never mind.
lather, rinse, repeat.
by the time our bid was in, it was the third on the table. and don't get me wrong, it was a good one, but oh well, apparently wasn't what they were looking for. but i really LIKED this one... oh well.
the thing is, i'm SO over these bank-owned fixer uppers now. yes, it's a... Read More
I'm glad that your little angel is doing well though, she really is so precious.
Sorry I wasn't able to make it on Saturday. I didn't get off of work untill almost 8am that morning so I didn't make it out of bed in time.
I promise to be a better neighbor... really I swear...