into: anticipation; temptation; passionate sex mind/soul-probing conversations; mindfucks especially if successfully played out on me; shy women with lots of passion; seduction by irresistable women

makes me happy: MUSIC; Having lots of free time to spend thinking and sorting out my life; Christmas lights (reminds me of childhood innocence and simple happiness); laughing outloud; dancing; more dancing; happy dogs; shopping; spending time with my family; lying around with someone and being close and lazy after great sex; messing with my students' heads

makes me sad: Knowing that someday I will have to face the loss of the people I truly love; it makes me crazy with anxiety; The fact that sad things have to exist at all; Any cruelty to animals; and finally the fact that I will never get to sleep with someone as hot as Fractal.

5 things i can't live without: IPOD; my ex-girlfriend and best friend; my Actiq; my husband (who reminds me of what is good and kind)

vices: you would need to get to know me to find out my interesting vices; otherwise, laziness, excessive shopping, being too passionate and excessive in virtually everything I do (I need to learn moderation); massive impatience

thoughts on sg: I like it

occupation: College Professor

current crush: Tara and Willow from Buffy the Vampire Slayer; Tina Fey; Anjelina Jolie (just looking at her makes me hurt); Gillian Anderson (I love redheads); a student from long ago; oh, and my doctor :-)

stats: about 5'4, very white, curvy

body mods: three cuts on my legs and three on my arm; it is not so much the body mod as the blood I am after; I plan to get a tattoo of an angel in the near future, something that represents the peace I can't seem to find in life

gets me hot: women kissing if it is real and intense, otherwise why bother; young women who need to be led down forbidden paths to find themselves; strong, independent women; mindfucks; sucking and biting; anything that has to do with the mouth; smart women who have a depth you get to discover over time

favorite position: Depends on who I am with and what am I trying to get out of it

fantasy: You'll have to know me personally to know this

sign: Sagittarius; the sign of the brutally honest

most humbling moment: When the love of my life (and my girlfriend) forgot to meet me somewhere because she was having sex with her new boy toy; still hurts after 6 years

i lost my virginity: too boring to talk about at this stage in my life, but it was a positive experience because I waited until I was old enugh to experience on my own terms

CIGARETTES: "I'm giving up"

MY DIET: Omnivore

ALCOHOL: Occasionally

MY DRUG USE: Down the hatch

I AM LOOKING FOR: a woman

MY KINK FACTOR: I'll try anything once, especially if you beg for it.

MY POLITICS: Politics, who cares?

POT: Nope

MY STATUS: open relationship

MY IDEA OF A GOOD TIME: Clubbing followed by the all-night diner., Reading at the coffeeshop., A long, slow, late dinner with friends., Stay in and watch old movies on tv., Internet. All night. Again.

I WANT: Romance, Booty, Friendship, Online Flirting

MY PIGEONHOLES: HipHop, Goth, Retro, Bookworm, Fetish