From dansiego3
Well i see that you’re 33. So you are not a neebie to love i suppose. Sorry you are having this rough patch. I think some people try to pursue an ideal their whole life, a whole bunch of criteria that is usually sort of nonsense. I never had conscious criteria when i was dating, it was fun almost the whole time. I just don’t believe there is anything close to only 1 woman i would spend the rest of my life with. But i found my wife, she is quite good for me in unanticipated ways. Totally opposite in many things. Love her to death, even if i doubt she’s the only woman on the planet for me. She is quite good enough to die with even if all our 14 years weren’t the best.