into: literature, love, sex, rock 'n' roll, Jon Stewart, reading, writing, Strongbadia, interactive art installations, the word "Halifax," X words, passion, living in the now, kisses, chocolate, absurdly tall men, my hot-ass husband and his radio announcer voice
not into: unchecked baggage, blame, shame, guilt, porn stars with fake tits, the total lack of full-frontal straight male nudity, lies, crack, blow, mega-ultra low-rise pants, crazy high-waist pants, fads, pets as accessories, flakiness, fair-weather friends, 40+ polyamorous creeps who are into D&D and feature long greasy ponytails and wolf t-shirts and also claim to be tantric, assholes, douchebags, fucktards
makes me happy: dark chocolate, emotional availability, hugs, kisses, hot sex in hot showers, allusions, metaphors, inspiration, Oscar Wilde, love, lust, smart men, love letters, the perfect short story, David Sedaris, Jeanette Winterson, Leonard Cohen, honesty, my husband, my friends, people, places and things
makes me sad: god-awful poetry, badly written erotica, hipsters, the word "polyamorous," Print-On-Demand publishing, the death of print media, badly managed/designed websites, ugly tattoos, -isms and phobias, people who don't read
hobbies: writing, eating chocolate, reading, biking, knitting, bitching, coffee, sex
5 things i can't live without: the interweb, intelligent discussion, honesty, intimacy, words on paper
vices: it's only a vice if they force you to stop
thoughts on sg: I hate it
i spend most of my free time: writing and building my empire online at blackheartmagazine.com
occupation: Editor-in-Chief, Black Heart Magazine / Sex Reporter, Hour.ca / Writer & Blogger, Buttontapper.com
current crush: husbot!
stats: made in the USA, warped by Canada
body mods: will not make you cool
heroes: I don't believe in -isms, I just believe in me
gets me hot: literature, foreplay, reading, erotica... you know, the usual
favorite position: Naughty Librarian
fantasy: your ink, my skin... or the reverse, as applies
sign: trespassers will be shot; survivors will be shot again
most humbling moment: humbert humbert whatwhat?
i lost my virginity: on a pile of books to a famous poet
MY DIET: Omnivore
MY KINK FACTOR: I buy sex toys at the hardware store.
MY STATUS: exclusive relationship
MY IDEA OF A GOOD TIME: Reading at the coffeeshop.
MY PIGEONHOLES: Fuck you, I defy categories