Well to update, I had several more conversations with the girl about this boy. She kept talking about how confused she was. So, for the sake of self-preservation I cut her loose. She wanted to know for how long and I told her that I had to look at it as a permanent thing. I told her that I couldn't wait around thinking that she might come back. She cried a lot and told me that she didn't want to lose me.
She left and then promplty went on a date with this boy. A friend of ours ran into her that night and my girl said that she was having a good time until she saw our friend. I think that she was reminded of me.
Girlfriend called the next day and left a message saying that she loves and misses me. Then she calls again later and says that she's not sure if she can go through with this. I tried to just stay strong and supportive. Yesterday she came by to take the dog for a while.she then told me that she knows we'll be back together and wants to be able to tell me so right then but can't quite yet.I agree that she shouldn't if she's not 100% sure. She leaves and calls again later telling me that she's made up her mind not to talk with this guy anymore. She says that it's not easy but that she is making a conscious decision realizing that the grass isn't greener and that she can't lose me. I was very cautious and want her to be sure. We went out for dinner and it was very strainde. At first she was jovial and acting like nothing had happened. I told her that that bothered me a bit and still felt a bit insecure about the whole thing. I know it's odd but I want her to be intimate with me right now. Sort of a reassurance but she says she's just feeling very un-sexual right now. What does this mean and am I setting myself up? I told her that she needed to be sure about all this because I can't take a second round of this.

Well to update, I had several more conversations with the girl about this boy. She kept talking about how confused she was. So, for the sake of self-preservation I cut her loose. She wanted to know for how long and I told her that I had to look at it as a permanent thing. I told her that I couldn't wait around thinking that she might come back. She cried a lot and told me that she didn't want to lose me.
She left and then promplty went on a date with this boy. A friend of ours ran into her that night and my girl said that she was having a good time until she saw our friend. I think that she was reminded of me.
Girlfriend called the next day and left a message saying that she loves and misses me. Then she calls again later and says that she's not sure if she can go through with this. I tried to just stay strong and supportive. Yesterday she came by to take the dog for a while.she then told me that she knows we'll be back together and wants to be able to tell me so right then but can't quite yet.I agree that she shouldn't if she's not 100% sure. She leaves and calls again later telling me that she's made up her mind not to talk with this guy anymore. She says that it's not easy but that she is making a conscious decision realizing that the grass isn't greener and that she can't lose me. I was very cautious and want her to be sure. We went out for dinner and it was very strainde. At first she was jovial and acting like nothing had happened. I told her that that bothered me a bit and still felt a bit insecure about the whole thing. I know it's odd but I want her to be intimate with me right now. Sort of a reassurance but she says she's just feeling very un-sexual right now. What does this mean and am I setting myself up? I told her that she needed to be sure about all this because I can't take a second round of this.