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I just took an online
love test. It's based on the
Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. I haven't read the book - Christian writing's not really my cup-O-tea, but the theory seems sensible: people express their love in different ways. If you and your partner express it in different ways, you might feel less loved and appreciated than you otherwise might. Here are my test results:
Total A - Words of Affirmation:...6
Total B - Quality Time:..................9
Total C - Receiving Gifts:.............1
Total D - Acts of Service:............3
Total E - Physical Touch:............11
HOW TO INTERPRET YOUR PROFILE SCORE
Your highest score indicates your primary love language. Your second highest score indicates your secondary love language. If two scores are identical, you are bilingual (you have two primary love languages). If the scores of your primary language and your secondary language are close (for example, 10 and 9 respectively), it indicates both are important to you. Whatever your spouse does to express love in either of these languages will get emotional points with you. The highest score for any one love language is 12.
Having a clear picture of your primary and secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior. Think back over the past and ask yourself, "What have I most often requested from my spouse?" Chances are your answer will lie within the scope of your primary and secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meet your deepest need for emotional love. Your requests, however, might have come across as nagging or criticizing and thus driven your spouse away.
According to the test, I like physical contact and I like to spend quality time together. Receiving gifts is not that important to me. I think this is accurate.
I just took an online
love test. It's based on the
Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. I haven't read the book - Christian writing's not really my cup-O-tea, but the theory seems sensible: people express their love in different ways. If you and your partner express it in different ways, you might feel less loved and appreciated than you otherwise might. Here are my test results:
Total A - Words of Affirmation:...6
Total B - Quality Time:..................9
Total C - Receiving Gifts:.............1
Total D - Acts of Service:............3
Total E - Physical Touch:............11
HOW TO INTERPRET YOUR PROFILE SCORE
Your highest score indicates your primary love language. Your second highest score indicates your secondary love language. If two scores are identical, you are bilingual (you have two primary love languages). If the scores of your primary language and your secondary language are close (for example, 10 and 9 respectively), it indicates both are important to you. Whatever your spouse does to express love in either of these languages will get emotional points with you. The highest score for any one love language is 12.
Having a clear picture of your primary and secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior. Think back over the past and ask yourself, "What have I most often requested from my spouse?" Chances are your answer will lie within the scope of your primary and secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meet your deepest need for emotional love. Your requests, however, might have come across as nagging or criticizing and thus driven your spouse away.
According to the test, I like physical contact and I like to spend quality time together. Receiving gifts is not that important to me. I think this is accurate.
Total A - Words of Affirmation:...6
Total B - Quality Time:..................9
Total C - Receiving Gifts:.............1
Total D - Acts of Service:............3
Total E - Physical Touch:............11
HOW TO INTERPRET YOUR PROFILE SCORE
Your highest score indicates your primary love language. Your second highest score indicates your secondary love language. If two scores are identical, you are bilingual (you have two primary love languages). If the scores of your primary language and your secondary language are close (for example, 10 and 9 respectively), it indicates both are important to you. Whatever your spouse does to express love in either of these languages will get emotional points with you. The highest score for any one love language is 12.
Having a clear picture of your primary and secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior. Think back over the past and ask yourself, "What have I most often requested from my spouse?" Chances are your answer will lie within the scope of your primary and secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meet your deepest need for emotional love. Your requests, however, might have come across as nagging or criticizing and thus driven your spouse away.
According to the test, I like physical contact and I like to spend quality time together. Receiving gifts is not that important to me. I think this is accurate.