urm.. I justread an article somewhere.. oh yeah.. at hte beautician.. that lunch dates are quite cool... no pressure.. during theday.. and theres a set time limit (ie she has to go back to work) so you can relaz heaps... and then you get more wound up about seeing them the next time because you had that snippit of a date...it also makes like the dinner date heaps better because you've already made a bit of small talk and you're more relaxed with each other...

I dont know.. if thats true.. but it seemed sensible to me..

I've never dated so I cant tell you...

2) dude... I'll write you an email...

That's Great!! I'm so happy for you..I hope the date goes well sweetie.

1. Cook the girl dinner, it shows how sweet you can be plus everyone needs to eat.

2. You and the cool peeps should start your own club then.

1. Museums and the like seem to work well. Cheap (often free), lots of opportunity for conversation, and even more than a few place to steal off to for more intimate concerns.

2. Not a clue. The selfish part of me would want to say to just continue as long as you aren't being treating badly. But that's not really good. I don't know.

Thanks hon!



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the top is actually a shadow of vader's helmet, that part of the design was a poster for the re-release of Jedi. it's hard to pick out though. it still needs to be outlined and have the white and yellow highlights put in.

cremaster series is a major artwork composing of films, sculptures, pictures and many other forms of multimedia by an artist called matthew barney... he worked on it for over 8 years.. and he finally completed the last piece in 2002...

its a secret what business I'm going to open

http://www.cremaster.net

She's right about the lunch date-- those are the best, especially with someone you haven't spent a lot of time with in the past. It'll show her you are relaxed and comfortable, whereas offering to cook her dinner on a first date, especially when you asked her so non-chalantly, looks a bit overzealous.

As for the club, do the people you like feel the same about the leadership? If so, that could have a big impact on your actions.

oh my god! that made me laugh out loud! thanks!

(not the journal, the post in mine! haha!) a great first date is a walk. as long as it's nice, then if it's a little cold you can, you know, help her warm up...(with a HUG! keep your mind out of the gutter!!) haha. but the lunch date is good also. maybe a walk is a little too romantic...ah, what do i know, i'm so not romantic. i have boobs, that's how i get the men.

my boyfriend seems to be immune to that...damn it!! perhaps i should study some mind trickery.

whoa! way to ask someone out!! go you, hope that works out well for you!

hmm, good idea! i'll look into those pasties. perhaps starbucks, i'm not going to be picky at this point!

yeah lunch sounds good, but I havent eaten yet today so I could be wrong. I usually just ask them to a movie that way we have before and after the movie to talk and something in the middle to talk about that we have experienced together.

Thank You for being a great friend!