So I went out with that girl tonight....Not sure how i feel about her. She's really nice, with a cool personality and somewhat attractive. I know i've always thought i liked taller girls, but she may be too tall and too big for me. IT's one thing that I get looks for being so tall sometimes, but me and a girl that's 6ft tall and not fat, but not thin either might be a lil too much.
We had dinner and then went back to my place and watched the Royal Tenenbaums (good flick btw) and just cuddled on the couch which was nice. But i didn't reallyfeel like going any further and i know i could have b/c she's totally into me i think. So if i didn't want to go any further tonight, does that mean i won't want to in the future?
I don't know...i'd like to think that i'm above the whole looks thing (some girls i've been attracted to aren't really all that attractive) but I'm just not sure if the physical thing works between us. I guess i'll give it some more time and mabye it'll work. Who knows??? I mean there are other girls out there who I am more attracted to, but have yet to ask them out on a date.
Then there's the whole question of dating excluslisively....like is it OK to see another girl if the girl tonight is interested in me? I don't know...not very experienced with dating.
Ohhhh...almost forgot. Got two pairs of Doc Martens for under $100 today! Sweet ass deal at Bovvers. Any PGH Peepz out there should check out the wicked sales there.
We had dinner and then went back to my place and watched the Royal Tenenbaums (good flick btw) and just cuddled on the couch which was nice. But i didn't reallyfeel like going any further and i know i could have b/c she's totally into me i think. So if i didn't want to go any further tonight, does that mean i won't want to in the future?
I don't know...i'd like to think that i'm above the whole looks thing (some girls i've been attracted to aren't really all that attractive) but I'm just not sure if the physical thing works between us. I guess i'll give it some more time and mabye it'll work. Who knows??? I mean there are other girls out there who I am more attracted to, but have yet to ask them out on a date.
Then there's the whole question of dating excluslisively....like is it OK to see another girl if the girl tonight is interested in me? I don't know...not very experienced with dating.
Ohhhh...almost forgot. Got two pairs of Doc Martens for under $100 today! Sweet ass deal at Bovvers. Any PGH Peepz out there should check out the wicked sales there.
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and no I don't think that means you won't want to or she will walk...you may become more attracted the more you hang out...and she might think you are a perfect gentleman for not trying shit...
HOWEVER...that could be a double edged sword...you may NEVER be attracted...and she may think something is wrong with her...um yeah.
and if you have not made out...she has no reason to think you two are a thing...she shouldn't anyway after a single date..hell even a handful unless there is some sign...but girls are girls...so you should be able to "date" around.
and I understand about the size thing...I met a dude around my height...a little taller...like an inch or two..and I did not want to see him...too little. I dunno protection thing or something...maybe he was just too emo.
I dunno..sounds shallow...but you like what you like and life is too short to settle.
-D