You are doing the right thing: detaching with love is hard and knowing how much your mom is struggling must hurt too. She needs to learn/relearn how to care for herself so giving her all the info for help empowers her to do the work.
Anxiety would seem to be the appropriate emotion for you about now but it can definitely suck and be scarey.
Stick with it girl.

Sorry for the problems. The best thing you can do is offer your mom love and emotional support and hope she can make it through OK. Keep working at remembering that it's not all within your control - do what you can, but remember that your primary responsibility is to take good care of yourself. It's the old airline safety spiel - be sure to put on your own oxygen mask before trying to help anyone else.

Best wishes.

She couldn't collect unemployment while the place was shutdown? Hope it all turns out ok. I'm sure it will.

Hope you feel better! Sending good vibes your and your mom's way. Hope things work out.

xxx *massive hugs*

All my love hon, you're doing such an amazing thing trying to help her out. That shows how much you love her, and how much you're a loving woman as well. I hope things work out for the best with both of you!!

sending out all the good vibe-age I can
I hope it all works out. The system can work, but she's going to have to try.

Well, best of luck to you and your mom.

hey you... hope you made it through the panic zone alright. how are your Chicago plans shaking out?

xxx *hugs* miss u

i got an ulcer from worrying about my father when he had a heart-attack. he's ok. i'm on anti-biotics for the ulcer. so i can relate.