age: 29 (Aug 15, 1982)

MEMBER SINCE: September 2004

occupation: house manager at a shelter for domestic violence victims

crush: I totally have a geek-girl crush on Stephen Colbert.

gets me hot: strawberries, kissing, dancing, light, tickling backrubs, beautiful girls, intelligent guys

heroes: teachers and social workers...they are sorely underpaid and under-appreciated for the work they do.

sign: Leo...*purrr*

i lost my virginity: I put it with my wacky noodles and they ran away together.

most humbling moment: when I was in elementary school, I had one of my friends break up with my "boyfriend" for me, then I hid out in the bathroom of the skating rink the rest of the night. It was his birthday. I don't think I've ever felt lower...

makes me happy: shiny things, cuddling with my son and hubby, my son's smile and laughter, my kitties, bubble wrap, cleaning my house, yummy red wine, hot showers, bubble baths, star light, good honest friends, talking until dawn, upside down kisses, faeries, mangoes, a decent Absolut and grapefruit, playing in the rain, music, thunderstorms, flowers, grass beneath my bare feet, warm mud squishing between my toes, flip flops, skinny dipping

fantasy: Honestly? To not have to worry about money. That would be nice.

stats: petite and sassy, like Tink

makes me sad: negativity, abuse, fear, liars, bigots, the social state of this country, the way we treat the planet, the emptiness i see in a lot of people's eyes