age: 39 (Jul 29, 1972)

MEMBER SINCE: September 2006

occupation: Dreamer, Drafted Counselor, Student and Aspiring Writer

body mods: Three holes in my left ear, one in my right. More to come.

fantasy: Ask me.

sign: Leo

into: I'll get back to this.

crush: I don't know her name but she's always sent me into overdrive. Maybe someday I'll meet her.

gets me hot: Assertiveness. Geeky girls. Romance in most forms. Music. Water. Cute instead of Beautiful. Artistic and Emotional thought. Curves. Open-mindedness. Morality.

heroes: Gandhi, Eleanor Roosevelt, Oscar Wilde, MLK and Churchill. For obvious reasons all but also for more subtle reasons. All of these people sought only to be themselves no matter the cost. In the process, they helped change a little piece of the world.

makes me sad: Insincerity, jadedness, materialism, people who attack others just because they can, Reno NV where I currently live, being alone and being too picky to just grab anyone, being without music, being without the sea.

most humbling moment: When all the foundations of my life became toxic and began to work against me, going on autopilot, putting myself down. Feeling lower than dirt. Knowing that deep down, I felt less about myself than of even those I disliked. Then having to dash away said foundation and start from scratch.

i lost my virginity: With one of the most special women I'll ever meet. My first everything. I was lucky. --- The first time was in a car during a long paper route in the country, next to a very verbal cow.