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MAY 19, 2012 @ 01:45 AM


I am going to share an opinion that is not very popular, but I don't really care.

I am so fucking tired of hearing all these people whining about kids getting bullied, or that they were bullied as a child and that is the reason they are (insert issue here).
I have been fat all my life. I am also gifted/burdened with an intellect that is not Steven Hawkings impressive, but much higher than Forest Gump. Throw in the fact that I share a first name with a popular Star Wars character (making everyone and their fucking grandmother "my father")...and the fact that as a kid I often took a shower before going to bed, instead of when I woke up...making me a tad stinky due to the fact that I sweat vinegar...and you have the perfect recipe for...DING DING DING...bully target. Oh yeah, and I wasn't POOR poor, but I definitely wasn't wearing Nikes and Adidas. If it fit me and was on sale at K-mart, it was school clothes...
This went on until about senior year in High school when I started helping some of the more popular kids pass classes by explaining Biology to them in terms they could understand, and one of them actually stood up for me once when I was being bullied...so yeah, I was bullied...a lot. Not so much physically as mentally.
Did it destroy me self esteem? It took it's hits, but it didn't descimate me.
Did I go on a rampage and kill all my class mates? No. Never crossed my mind.
Did I kill myself or even attempt to? Nah. I believe that everyone at one point has THOUGHT about suicide and that it is healthy to do so...but I never truly wanted to die.
So what did I do?
I fucking GOT OVER IT!
Kids are assholes. They are little self absorbed fucking pricks and they are mean to each other. It...happens.

This stems from a Yahoo News article I saw where some woman wrote a poem about being bullied on Facebook, and there was an outcrying of apologies from the now grown bullies, and apparently it became popular enough to be considered news.

Now I am not saying bullying is not serious. Obviously in some cases it is...cases where homosexual teens were bullied to the point of suicide. Constant attacks until a kid snaps and brings daddy's pistol to school...That is not laughing matter...
but in cases where a chubby kid is made fun of...where the hell are the parents? The parents of the bully? The parents of the bullied child telling them that it doesn't fucking matter what someone else says about you, that your self worth is determined by YOU and YOU alone. Fuck everyone else. Hell, where are the fucking parents to tell their bullied child that they love them...bring home that fact that even if they are an outcast among peers, they are still loved by SOMEONE?
Where are the teachers that are supposed to look for this shit and put a stop to it if they see it on the playground or in the classroom?
Kids today are being raised to be helpless fucking victims.
My mother always told me...you do not go out looking for a fight, but if someone starts one, you damn well better finish it...and honestly I never really got into any major fights because of that. (I once punched a kid in the gut, but he was kicking me in my BROKEN ankle...so he had it coming, and even then...we squared off and were about to throw down and I decided it wasn't worth it.)

The point is, kids need to toughen up a bit and learn that bullies come and go, but life...well, it's tough...but worth it.

Just needed to rant.

-Me
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Wolfwood1203

Wolfwood1203

El Paso, TX
December 2011

MAY 19, 2012 02:19 AM

"Kids today are being raised to be helpless fucking victims."

Exactly the problem. People are too goddamn pc about everything and worried about hurting feelings and such. As a result we're raising a new generation of pussies who can't handle being bullied.

I'm like you, I grew up fat with bucked teeth, and in middle school I had a bully. I didn't get depressed and try suicide or any crap like that. I stood up to the bastard and eventually he left me alone. Of course that was only after I punched him in the head and seriously made him rethink picking on me. But that's the point. I was raised with the idea that I should defend myself from bullies, not to expect everyone to be friendly and nice.

LaceyK

LaceyK

Tarrytown, NY
October 2005

MAY 19, 2012 05:30 AM

I do agree with you.

I seriously worry about the future of America with the victim/entitlement mentality that parents are bestowing upon their children. Between the two I think we are going to be a whiney, non-responsible, lazy people.

Pinyon

Pinyon

USA
August 2010

MAY 19, 2012 07:24 AM

Yes!
I completely agree with you and the guys above.
It's pathetic. I'm happy that there are others out there that share my feelings.
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Prov_guy

Prov_guy

Providence, RI
March 2010

MAY 19, 2012 08:34 AM

Well said! While I admit to being a bit left-leaning, the PC bullshit pisses me off. In some way, we can all claim to be victims, but none of us have to be helpless. Deal with it. It's life. It doesn't just happen when you're in school. If you don;t learn to deal with it as a kid, you'll never make it as a adult. Stop the coddling!

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